Alright, I made auto-kick come after 3 turns after giving this a chance I will be open to looking at 2 turns if need be.
I really don't want to make it a game option. I want to keep Conquer Club easy to use. Sure, power users will want tons of options to tweak things to their liking but the average person IMHO appreciates simple design. take the Apple iPods and the Shuffle for example. Very few buttons.
Conquer Club is the Apple of world-domination type games