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Re: If Marriage Is a Fundemental Right, Then...?

Postby Phatscotty on Tue Apr 23, 2013 12:00 am

okay, so a list of a couple countries (not the ones JB or I live in.....) which didn't even start before the year 2000?

Not a very strong case that same sex marriage IS a right. The correct way to say it, certainly for JB, is "same sex marriage is a right in a few countries, but not mine, and has been for like 4,000 days."

Also, since 2000 is the first time anyone did this, is it fair to say gay marriage was "invented/created" 12 years ago?
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Re: If Marriage Is a Fundemental Right, Then...?

Postby Symmetry on Tue Apr 23, 2013 12:03 am

Phatscotty wrote:okay, so a list of a couple countries (not the ones JB or I live in.....) which didn't even start before the year 2000?


It's what you asked for as proof. No doubt you'll demand something else now.
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Re: If Marriage Is a Fundemental Right, Then...?

Postby Phatscotty on Tue Apr 23, 2013 12:09 am

Symmetry wrote:
Phatscotty wrote:okay, so a list of a couple countries (not the ones JB or I live in.....) which didn't even start before the year 2000? Not a very strong case that same sex marriage IS a right.

The correct way to say it, certainly for JB, is "same sex marriage is a right in a few countries, but not mine, and has been for like 4,000 days."

Also, since 2000 is the first time anyone did this, is it fair to say gay marriage was "invented/created" 12 years ago?


It's what you asked for as proof. No doubt you'll demand something else now.


Symmetry, cmon now. You really think I am not aware that marriage was redefined in Denmark...or Massachussetts, or Mexico and France? What the hell are you smokin man?

You know 100% I did not ask for proof, or need proof. I asked for context, precedent, and perspective.

And you called me desperate.... Look at you! Falling all over yourself to answer a question that was not even asked to you, to provide "proof" of something I have acknowledged myself right here in this very thread repeatedly.

Desperate.... :lol:
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Re: If Marriage Is a Fundemental Right, Then...?

Postby Symmetry on Tue Apr 23, 2013 12:11 am

Phatscotty wrote:
Symmetry wrote:
Phatscotty wrote:okay, so a list of a couple countries (not the ones JB or I live in.....) which didn't even start before the year 2000?


It's what you asked for as proof. No doubt you'll demand something else now.


Symmetry, cmon now. You really think I am not aware that marriage was redefined in Denmark...or Massachussetts, or Mexico and France? What the hell are you smokin man?

You know 100% I did not ask for proof, or need proof. I asked for context, and perspective.

And you called me desperate.... Look at you! Falling all over yourself to answer a question that was not even asked to you, to provide "proof" of something I have acknowledged myself right here in this very thread.

Desperate.... :lol:


Aye, I think I called your situation correctly.
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Re: If Marriage Is a Fundemental Right, Then...?

Postby Phatscotty on Tue Apr 23, 2013 12:17 am

Symmetry wrote:
Phatscotty wrote:
Symmetry wrote:
Phatscotty wrote:okay, so a list of a couple countries (not the ones JB or I live in.....) which didn't even start before the year 2000?


It's what you asked for as proof. No doubt you'll demand something else now.


Symmetry, cmon now. You really think I am not aware that marriage was redefined in Denmark...or Massachussetts, or Mexico and France? What the hell are you smokin man?

You know 100% I did not ask for proof, or need proof. I asked for context, and perspective.

And you called me desperate.... Look at you! Falling all over yourself to answer a question that was not even asked to you, to provide "proof" of something I have acknowledged myself right here in this very thread.

Desperate.... :lol:


Aye, I think I called your situation correctly.


That's fine. but I did want to ask one thing about your post with all the countries. Do all the countries give the title "rights" for same sex marriage? Or do some of them simply recognize same sex marriage, or some of them don't regulate marriage at all, or some of them have different versions of marriage (like we have civil unions and domestic partnerships for non-traditional situations).
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Re: If Marriage Is a Fundemental Right, Then...?

Postby BigBallinStalin on Tue Apr 23, 2013 12:22 am

Thinking about this situation in terms of "rights" really isn't going to help.

"Rights" is a fancy word people use when they state that X cannot be done to them (negative rights) or Y must be done for others (positive rights).

You can't simply point at a place and say, "gee, right X is being enforced there" or "rights A-C are UNIVERSAL and ALL OVER THE PLACE," because none of that is useful.

1. Define terms.
Marriage is a contract; it's an agreement between two parties. Some marriages have religious ceremonies (Catholic), and other marriages do not (atheist/whatever).

2. Insert argument.
e.g.
a. Marriage can only be granted to heterosexual couples because.... [insert benefits and costs of various aspects].
b. Marriage can be granted to both hetero and homosexual couples because.... [insert benefits and costs of various aspects].

And there you go; just don't delve into the "because it's a right" argument. That would be stupid. Same goes for "cuz tradition" [without consequential explanation about a change to tradition----NONE of which has been given], and "cuz bestiality, incest, pedophilia" because that's just stupid. The only people that assert such a stance are pundits, and no one should be as stupid as a pundit ITT.
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Re: If Marriage Is a Fundemental Right, Then...?

Postby Symmetry on Tue Apr 23, 2013 12:24 am

Phatscotty wrote:
Symmetry wrote:
Phatscotty wrote:Desperate.... :lol:


Aye, I think I called your situation correctly.


That's fine. but I did want to ask one thing about your post with all the countries. Do all the countries give the title "rights" for same sex marriage? Or do some of them simply recognize same sex marriage, or some of them don't regulate marriage at all, or some of them have different versions of marriage (like we have civil unions and domestic partnerships for non-traditional situations).


Feel free to investigate as far as your curiosity impels you.
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Re: If Marriage Is a Fundemental Right, Then...?

Postby Phatscotty on Tue Apr 23, 2013 1:08 am

it's the right of the people to say what marriage is or isn't.

I don't have to "argue" for traditional marriage, or give a reason why it's important (although I have given many). Traditional marriage is what we already have, and it's all we've ever had. I'm not trying to change anything.

If given the chance, I won't vote in any way to give the government more power, and I will not vote for any particular amendment that increases government spending, and I try to hold that for all issues regardless.
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Re: If Marriage Is a Fundemental Right, Then...?

Postby Juan_Bottom on Tue Apr 23, 2013 2:35 am

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North American Indians practiced same-sex marriage before you white people showed up and murdered everybody.

Also, that same argument was used for interracial marriage. "Where in the world and when in history have the races ever mixed?"
Actually, it's still being used by skinheads today.
I can guarantee you that your argument was also used to oppress Women and Negros in American history.
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Re: If Marriage Is a Fundemental Right, Then...?

Postby Juan_Bottom on Tue Apr 23, 2013 2:39 am

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Re: If Marriage Is a Fundemental Right, Then...?

Postby thegreekdog on Tue Apr 23, 2013 7:28 am

Phatscotty wrote:
thegreekdog wrote:Can we go back to what the problem is with the following potential law change:

"Gay couples will be recognized as married with respect to federal and state law."

I'm not sure I (still) understand what the problem is.


which means....if passed......that "gender does not matter"......correct?


Correct.

Any thoughts?
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Re: If Marriage Is a Fundemental Right, Then...?

Postby AndyDufresne on Tue Apr 23, 2013 9:43 am

thegreekdog wrote:
Phatscotty wrote:
thegreekdog wrote:Can we go back to what the problem is with the following potential law change:

"Gay couples will be recognized as married with respect to federal and state law."

I'm not sure I (still) understand what the problem is.


which means....if passed......that "gender does not matter"......correct?


Correct.

Any thoughts?

TGD, if gender doesn't matter anymore in civilized society, all the men are going to go into women's restrooms. This emphasis on gender is the only thing stopping us.


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Re: If Marriage Is a Fundemental Right, Then...?

Postby thegreekdog on Tue Apr 23, 2013 10:41 am

AndyDufresne wrote:
thegreekdog wrote:
Phatscotty wrote:
thegreekdog wrote:Can we go back to what the problem is with the following potential law change:

"Gay couples will be recognized as married with respect to federal and state law."

I'm not sure I (still) understand what the problem is.


which means....if passed......that "gender does not matter"......correct?


Correct.

Any thoughts?

TGD, if gender doesn't matter anymore in civilized society, all the men are going to go into women's restrooms. This emphasis on gender is the only thing stopping us.


--Andy


My freshman year of college we had co-ed restrooms and nothing bad happened. I know it's only anecdotal evidence... but still.
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Re: If Marriage Is a Fundemental Right, Then...?

Postby BigBallinStalin on Tue Apr 23, 2013 11:03 am

Phatscotty wrote:it's the right of the people to say what marriage is or isn't.

I don't have to "argue" for traditional marriage, or give a reason why it's important (although I have given many). Traditional marriage is what we already have, and it's all we've ever had. I'm not trying to change anything.

If given the chance, I won't vote in any way to give the government more power, and I will not vote for any particular amendment that increases government spending, and I try to hold that for all issues regardless.


In that case, your argument has no standing. Thanks for trolling.
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Re: If Marriage Is a Fundemental Right, Then...?

Postby AndyDufresne on Tue Apr 23, 2013 11:05 am

thegreekdog wrote:
AndyDufresne wrote:
thegreekdog wrote:
Phatscotty wrote:
thegreekdog wrote:Can we go back to what the problem is with the following potential law change:

"Gay couples will be recognized as married with respect to federal and state law."

I'm not sure I (still) understand what the problem is.


which means....if passed......that "gender does not matter"......correct?


Correct.

Any thoughts?

TGD, if gender doesn't matter anymore in civilized society, all the men are going to go into women's restrooms. This emphasis on gender is the only thing stopping us.


--Andy


My freshman year of college we had co-ed restrooms and nothing bad happened. I know it's only anecdotal evidence... but still.


TGD, this is obviously a lie. We all know you never left your dorm room because you were too busy studying the lawz, man.


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