jay_a2j wrote:salvadevinemasse wrote:IN closing, the church is going against one of our most arcane instinct that has been rooted into our subconscious through millions of yeras of evolution because they feel that its "immoral" and give no backing as to why it is except for the fact that they say so.
It is immoral because sex is a gift from God between a man and woman who are married. The two "become one".It IS, however, a mother's instict to do what is best for her offspring, and if she isn't in a position to raise a child at the time she was pregnant, then she has every right to wait and rasie a child when she is ready to do it.
She has every right to wait til she is married to have sex. Don't get involved in an activity that you are unprepared to handle the consiquences. If she doesn't want a child she shouldn't be doing that which can result in a child. This is the ultimate example of not taking responcibility for your actions!Having the child at an innopportune time could prevent the mother from doing things like succeeding in college and getting a potentially better job. This would ruin the life of the child she was intending to have.
Which is another reason to abstain til marriage. "Ruin the life of a child"? No, I think being dead would ruin it more.Okay- Jay.... Your partly on my nerves just a tiny bit.. You see, your basically saying everyones going to hell..everyone I know is having sex before marriage and some of us ARENT christian! *did I say that out loud..opps I meant are christ impaired!*
anyways! I know a 16 year old who has sex and when she gets pregnant aborts the baby as soon as possible. No I dont agree with it at all before anyone asks me.. infact I think people who use abortion as birth control should be shot! Never know who your aborting could be our next president for all we know or a scientist who cures cancer or a career student who steals all your money! We dont know is my point here!
Its such a sad day for you jay because I really don't believe in hell.. But since you do...were your parents married when they made you? ahem, ahem! Most people I've heard of these days aren't married before they make their first child. Nor do they realize their first child is around till her second missed period or at least 2 weeks of "missing it".. Can't say we'd actually miss it because Some of us girls hate the cramps...
I'm not saying everyone is going to hell. I'm saying everyone sins. Most people are going to hell, "Broad is the path that leads to destruction, narrow is the path that leads to life and few find it". I wish it wasn't the case. But most people are going to choose to reject God.
Yes my parents were married (I'm 34... unwed motherhood was less prevelent back then).
If most people are going to hell though that leaves us with 1 very important question...Who's bringing the beer and snacks!? We cant go to hell without food and beverages! hehehe. We dont choose to reject god there jay.. He hasnt shown proof that he/she/it even exists... isnt god the one who said worship no false idles/gods ect.. whatever the exact wording was.. point is who is the false god? Think about it, because wouldnt that make the jews right? moses had the 10 commandments and I do btw follow them as guidelines to the best of my ability.. However, christianity wasnt brought forth by just the 10 commandments was it? It was also brought forth by the death of jesus, correct? and yet I hear so many say praise jesus when it should be praise god.. *raises eyebrow* So how is that not worshipping a false idle/god? Aren't you guys legally on the verge of breaking 1 of the 10 commandments...?
*I think I made my point well there*...