Extremely unfair all of you. Even if you do stockpile, there's no reason to mock someone who gets annoyed by the strategy.
Here's the problem with stockpiling:
1) Anybody can do it without expending an ounce of thought and far too often it has no intrinsic goal other than its own sake- and a mere hope that your opponent shows vulnerability by not stacking and overextending. Thus, it is a passive strategy.
2) If the hope displayed in a passive strategy (see point 1) doesn't pan out, one of two very unsatisfactory things will usually happen:
a) Two stacks will end up colliding in a dice war, which means that randomness, not tactics or planning, determines the winner- giving a 50% chance of winning or losing to both sides, assuming roughly equal stacks of sufficient size.
b) Neither opponent will take a risk, and the stacks will continue to build. The only plan that I can fathom in this case is that one player will eventually lose patience and leave himself or herself vulnerable- which again isn't really due to skill or strategy but reptilian patience. As far as I'm concerned, I may as well go join a staring contest
That said, there are plenty of ways to defeat stockpilers, although trial and error and a willingness to lose played a part in forming my tactics. I've pretty much devoted my CC games to punishing mindless stockpiling (which is different than reasoned stockpiling, which I respect) as it was very frustrating to me as well when I was a freemium.
The first, and most important thing to remind yourself however is that stockpiling is not an 'anti-fun' strategy in most games, just a challenge to be worked around. So don't be too much of a curmudgeon- just figure out how to beat them!
The second thing to know is that Nuclear games are the haven for naturally aggressive players. Many top-ranked players like to play defensive and counter-punch strategies, so they avoid Nuke games or call them chaotically unfair with no strategy (presumably because they lack the incliniation or intelligence to form a strategy). Try searching for large nuclear games (6-8) players if you want to avoid stockpilers altogether. Or play really small maps, like Doodle Earth...
Finally, know that stacks do have one inherent flaw: as long as they sit unused, they hold great potential evil for the stockpiler. The reason is the randomness of the dice themselves. Truly random dice have streaks (picture them like waves on an ocean if you will). So, long streaks can occur that favor the defender or attacker, sort of like small waves and big waves can wash onto a beach. The key here is that if you attack with very little to risk, say 4 vs. 12, you put the odds in your favor, attrition-wise, because you can lose at most 2 (unless you're waay too aggressive and attack down to 1 troop, which I don't recommend) while your opponent can lose up to 12! Is it likely that you'll take down 12, or even 6? Hell no! But those streaks exist in truly random dice, and every time someone stacks, they give you the chance to catch a big wave.
So chin up, and know that stockpiling doesn't have to ruin your fun!
