AAFitz wrote:As far as my lying about reporting it, that is of course possible. I certainly dont remember reporting it if I did, and im not sure that technically matters anyways, because I dont think bk would object to someone flaming him, but that doesnt mean it wouldnt be bannable.
Of course it was possible, which is why I brought it up; possible, but.. you seem intelligent and i think reporting, "panties in a wad" is a bit dumb (mind you, that's a statement coming from someone who DOES report flames)
AAFitz wrote:Either way, I do assume that that one line is what pushed it over the line, and is what was used as an explanation, while the other flames he was making at the time were factored in too. Not for me to say, or know. But if you see a case of me flaming someone, by all means report it. I try very hard not to make personal attacks, while discussing these topics.
If "panties in a wad" can push something over the line, then "panties in a wad" should, itself, be considered an offense that merits a first warning.
If you didn't report it, then mods were hunting for it. If mods were hunting for it, that's targeting. If they're targeting bk for suggesting something about someone's panties, then they should target anyone for it.
I'm with you, Fitz, in that, I try hard not to flame. I didn't participate in flame wars, and used to ignore ALOT before reporting. Eventually, however, my tolerance was worn down because of protectionism; some hassles my way that were repetetive and unquestionably flames and baits and such, that weren't addressed because a mod was protecting the person. The mod has since admitted protecting the person, and apologized.
Good for the mod. The issue for me, however, is that CC policies still allow mods to target some while protecting others. If it can happen to me, it can happen to others.
Let's say bk makes a habit of nasty flames everywhere. Finally, he tones it down to "panties in a wad," which is something that would never be a warnable offense on CC. Is his use of "panties" an improvement over past behaviors? If he flamed as badly as you seem to indicate, then "panties" IS an improvement, and as such, he should be commended for the improvement rather than banned because he didn't achieve absolute perfection; ESPECIALLY since the supposed flame wouldn't get an eyelash-bat from anyone else - including you, the recipient.
Another perspective is, if you and bk are friends, but enjoy hacking away at each other with verbal swords, then, unless the posts get extreme, you two should be able to hack away. But just because you can hack at each other without penalty doesn't mean either of you should be able to hack the same way at someone else if whatever it is crosses grey areas.
I think you'd agree with that; I think bk would agree with that.
Disclaimer: use of AA and bk as discussion items is not intended as accusation against either party or flame thereof; any discomfort said use may have created is strictly unintended. The opinions expressed in this missive do NOT represent opinions of CC, its administration, moderation, or any subsidiary thereof... unfortunately