Phatscotty wrote:I wish you guys would take my points seriously, if they need anything it's a serious debate. I'm open to changing my mind when something new is revealed or old information is mythbusted.
Go for it:
fair game topics....Government growth and benefit growth, gender identification, religious peoples simple belief in the Torrah/Bible,Koran/Vedas/every major religion in the world (that's choosing the easy on tho!), the slippery slope that then more than 2 people can be married or a person and an animal can be married or a family member can marry a family member (hey, they are people too ya know!), the topic of nature and natural law, how this will impact a country which is having it's credit rating reduced repeatedly and often, impact of benefits on private business and government spending/future debt, marriage as an ecclesiastical issue and NOT a government controlled one....
I'm taking your points seriously (obviously). I'm trying to convince you that this is a non-issue. For the fiftieth time:
- Marriage as an institution is not one that should be (or was) supported by the government.
- At some point in the past, marriage became an institution regulated and supported by the government.
- Gays (and anyone else) would like to have equal protection under the laws (see the second bullet) and have their marriages recognized, regulated, and supported by the government.
If your argument is that marriage, as regulated and supported by the government, needs to be defined as man and woman, then your violating the equal protection clause and making a statist argument.
If your argument is that marriage, as a non-government institution (how I view marriage), needs to be defined as man and woman, it probably already is in your particular religion (as it is in mine) and you don't need, want, or care how the government defines marriage.
Simply put, if gay marriages are recognized, regulated, and supported by the government, it does not lessen my marriage, except that now the government recognizes marriages between people who are of the same sex.
You have yet to demonstrate why you care about this issue or how this issue affects you without referring to the government regulation and support of marriage, which is counterintuitive to a non-statist.