Maybe some of you are missing the point too. Situations where someone has 2 armies left and they are still online playing a bunch of other games and wait 24 hours to take a turn is kind of ridiculous. Not against rules, but against common courtesy.

I fully agree in that case it's ridiculous ...

it's just obvious when people start stalling out when they are losing.

It may be obvious as a tendency if you encounter this often. But it never can be obvious in one specific game. It might always be coincidence. I frequently play nearly realtime in 1-1 games, but as I never commit to realtime ...

Had I been your partner my response to your warning would have been: 'Thanks for the warning, go ahead. And feel free to do such things without telling me in advance in the future.'

And you'd even get good feedback in the end for being a good team player.

Here's another one who likes the idea!