Clearly, the original poster doesn't understand the concept of RANDOM.

Suggestion Idea:
I would suggest that the number of missed turns (speed and casual) and the number of times a player is kicked from a game for missing turns be tracked and displayed.

Specifics:
Capture the number of turns a player misses and the number of times a player is kicked for missing ...

Not sure why there's voting on this ...

Good UI design and usability guidance would say that this is either a user preference set for all games or per game.

A checkbox in the game "[] Sound alarm when it's my turn" would solve it for everyone.