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Re: If homosexuality is a choice...

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KernowWarrior wrote:
Tupence wrote:
jimboston wrote:
Tupence wrote: Because most people in general are...
Valid and correct.
Tupence wrote: and in a competitive fighting environment like this site, you are more likely to find straight men.
Why do you assume this?
Gay men don't like competition and strategy?
Women don't like competition and strategy?
From my experience, gay men and women are less likely to be into competition and strategy.
From my experience women see everything as competition and strategy. lol
Lol but not in an online gaming scenario
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Tupence wrote:
KernowWarrior wrote:
Tupence wrote:
jimboston wrote:
Tupence wrote: Because most people in general are...
Valid and correct.
Tupence wrote: and in a competitive fighting environment like this site, you are more likely to find straight men.
Why do you assume this?
Gay men don't like competition and strategy?
Women don't like competition and strategy?
From my experience, gay men and women are less likely to be into competition and strategy.
From my experience women see everything as competition and strategy. lol
Lol but not in an online gaming scenario
Are you sure about that?
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Tupence wrote:
jimboston wrote:
Tupence wrote: Because most people in general are...
Valid and correct.
Tupence wrote: and in a competitive fighting environment like this site, you are more likely to find straight men.
Why do you assume this?
Gay men don't like competition and strategy?
Women don't like competition and strategy?
From my experience, gay men and women are less likely to be into competition and strategy.
that is also my experience.

why play strategy games such as this when they can be watching Desperate Housewives
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PLAYER57832 wrote:
Tupence wrote:
KernowWarrior wrote:
From my experience women see everything as competition and strategy. lol
Lol but not in an online gaming scenario
Are you sure about that?
No I can't be sure; it's my opinion based on my experience.
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Tupence wrote:
jimboston wrote:
Tupence wrote:
jimboston wrote:
Tupence wrote: Because most people in general are...
Valid and correct.
Tupence wrote: and in a competitive fighting environment like this site, you are more likely to find straight men.
Why do you assume this?
Gay men don't like competition and strategy?
Women don't like competition and strategy?
From my experience, gay men and women are less likely to be into competition and strategy.
You need more experience.

... or maybe you are just assuming people here are men (when they may be women)... and you are assume people here are straight (when they might be not-straight).

Then by assuming someone here is straight (mistakenly so in some cases)... you are validating your pre-conceived notions.
I'm not basing it on people on the site, I'm basing it on people that I know and have known in real life, both straight and non-straight.
Can I ask you how old you are?
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Just like there are white guys in the NBA or black guys in the NHL, there are a few gays and women on this site.

But the majority is straight guys.
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If you are an evolutionist: There is no biological advantage to homosexuality. the gene causing this effect would NOT be passed along, for obvious reasons.

If you are a deist, such as myself, it gets more complicated. It comes down to morality. You don't think I want to sleep with my girlfriend? But I consider it to be wrong before marriage. You don't think I would like to just take whatever I want? But I don't because that would be theft. You don't think I want to eat a cheeseburger for every meal? But I don't because I don't want to die (OK, this isn't as much of a "moral" one.) So, the urge may be natural, but you don't have to act on those urges. That is a choice.

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Some ITT have failed to distinguish between two arguments for two distinct choices: The first ponders if sexual orientation is a choice, while the second ponders if homosexual acts are a choice.
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jimboston wrote: ... or maybe you are just assuming people here are men (when they may be women)... and you are assume people here are straight (when they might be not-straight).
dunno about straight/gay, but women are definitely underepresented
Mr_Adams wrote:If you are an evolutionist: There is no biological advantage to homosexuality. the gene causing this effect would NOT be passed along, for obvious reasons.
This is a bit like saying that altruism contradicts evolution cause the "altruism gene" poses no benefit to the individual and should have disappeared.

Evolution doesn't work quite so naively.
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Mr_Adams wrote:If you are an evolutionist: There is no biological advantage to homosexuality. the gene causing this effect would NOT be passed along, for obvious reasons.
This just shows a misunderstanding of evolution. As long as the occurance were not a significant portion of the population, there is no problem . Its even possible that there is some kind of slight benefit. (though this gets into way off topic issues).
Mr_Adams wrote:If you are a deist, such as myself, it gets more complicated. It comes down to morality.
Nope, if you believe in God, it gets down to what God wants.. period. All else is simply explanation that humans might apply for "why".
Mr_Adams wrote: You don't think I want to sleep with my girlfriend? But I consider it to be wrong before marriage. You don't think I would like to just take whatever I want? But I don't because that would be theft. You don't think I want to eat a cheeseburger for every meal? But I don't because I don't want to die (OK, this isn't as much of a "moral" one.) So, the urge may be natural, but you don't have to act on those urges. That is a choice.
Yes, but this particular behavior doesn't cause anyone else harm, so why should it be prohibited?

There are absolute benefits to legal recognition of unions. Why shouldn't homosexuals be allowed those same benefits?


And.. none of the above really answers the question IF it is a choice. For that, you need evidence one way or another. The above just is not it.
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PLAYER57832 wrote: Yes, but this particular behavior doesn't cause anyone else harm, so why should it be prohibited?

There are absolute benefits to legal recognition of unions. Why shouldn't homosexuals be allowed those same benefits?
As a libertarian, I don't particularly believe that there is any reason for the government to say one way or the other who gets married. You shouldn't need a marriage license from the state, it's none of their buisness. Some sort of legal "union" perhaps, but only for legal purposes. Why, for example, can a man live with multiple women, and have physical relationships with them all, and there is no problem (I am referring to Hugh Hefner), but can't be married to more than one of them? Why does the government have a say in that? :-s
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Mr_Adams wrote:If you are an evolutionist: There is no biological advantage to homosexuality. the gene causing this effect would NOT be passed along, for obvious reasons.
This just shows a misunderstanding of evolution. As long as the occurance were not a significant portion of the population, there is no problem. Its even possible that there is some kind of slight benefit. (though this gets into way off topic issues).
The individuals portraying the gene would not naturally reproduce. You would be able to trace a family history of homosexuality if it were a recessive gene. As far as I've heard, neither of these things has been done, therefore it can not be linked to genetics.
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Mr_Adams wrote:
PLAYER57832 wrote: Yes, but this particular behavior doesn't cause anyone else harm, so why should it be prohibited?

There are absolute benefits to legal recognition of unions. Why shouldn't homosexuals be allowed those same benefits?
As a libertarian, I don't particularly believe that there is any reason for the government to say one way or the other who gets married. You shouldn't need a marriage license from the state, it's none of their buisness. Some sort of legal "union" perhaps, but only for legal purposes.
I agree here, its just that marriage is an easy way to combine everything from joint ownership to medical decisions in emergencies to inheritance to custody. Therefor, I believe it is cost effective for the state to recognize these unions. However, it is a debate point, sure.
Mr_Adams wrote:Why, for example, can a man live with multiple women, and have physical relationships with them all, and there is no problem (I am referring to Hugh Hefner), but can't be married to more than one of them? Why does the government have a say in that? :-s
This is a good point, but one for another thread. Its not related to the homosexuality issue.
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Mr_Adams wrote:If you are an evolutionist: There is no biological advantage to homosexuality. the gene causing this effect would NOT be passed along, for obvious reasons.
This just shows a misunderstanding of evolution. As long as the occurance were not a significant portion of the population, there is no problem. Its even possible that there is some kind of slight benefit. (though this gets into way off topic issues).
The individuals portraying the gene would not naturally reproduce. You would be able to trace a family history of homosexuality if it were a recessive gene. As far as I've heard, neither of these things has been done, therefore it can not be linked to genetics.
No, what I meant is that there are many traits that get carried on for no apparent reason. The selection part only comes into play in certain instances.. particularly times of "crisis"... be it us using antibiotics in our bodies (and therefore "selecting" for the more resistant bacteria, which is why antibiotics are growing less effective) or some other event.

Beyond that, there might be some reason why this persist that actually is an evolutionary advantage even if we cannot see it immediately. Homosexuality is very much found in much of the heterosexual animal world by-the-way, so it cannot be entirely negative. As an example of how a behavior might seem contrary to evolution, but really is not, there is a bird (cannot remember which one) where the young will stay an extra year with their parents under some circumstances. At first, it seems contradictory.. they stay instead of going out and having their own young. However, in this case, it turns out that we are more closely related to our siblings than our children, so it actually makes sense, genetic-wise, to ensure the siblings survive.

I am not saying I see any particular evolutionary advantage to homosexuality in humans, just saying you cannot dismiss it so readily. In humans, I suspect it is tied into the whole male-female continuum. It could be that part of what makes men homosexual is related to the part that makes some men more nurturing or some other trait (perhaps even an enhanced libido, etc.). It could be that weeding out the genetics that lead to homosexuality (and it is almost certainly a complex mix of genes, there is no "gay gene") would lead to far more aggressive males or some other negative issue, which might be very much contrary to the species survival. I am most definitely NOT saying this IS the case, I am just saying these things are very, very complicated.

In many cases, we see the "benefit" of a gene only in long retrospect. And, there are many traits in human beings that are not objectively beneficial, yet we have still evolved them.
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PLAYER57832 wrote:
Mr_Adams wrote:As a libertarian, I don't particularly believe that there is any reason for the government to say one way or the other who gets married. You shouldn't need a marriage license from the state, it's none of their buisness. Some sort of legal "union" perhaps, but only for legal purposes.
I agree here, its just that marriage is an easy way to combine everything from joint ownership to medical decisions in emergencies to inheritance to custody. Therefor, I believe it is cost effective for the state to recognize these unions. However, it is a debate point, sure.
It DOES have to do with the marriage thing, which is a huge point of debate in the gay/straight issue.
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Mr_Adams wrote:
PLAYER57832 wrote:
Mr_Adams wrote:As a libertarian, I don't particularly believe that there is any reason for the government to say one way or the other who gets married. You shouldn't need a marriage license from the state, it's none of their buisness. Some sort of legal "union" perhaps, but only for legal purposes.
I agree here, its just that marriage is an easy way to combine everything from joint ownership to medical decisions in emergencies to inheritance to custody. Therefor, I believe it is cost effective for the state to recognize these unions. However, it is a debate point, sure.
It DOES have to do with the marriage thing, which is a huge point of debate in the gay/straight issue.
Not specifically. That is, whether marriage should be recognized at all is a different issue from whether it should only be recognized for heterosexuals.
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“Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not; remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for." (Epicurus (Greek philosopher, BC 341-270))
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If that doesn't end this thread, then this will: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eyqUj3PGHv4
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KernowWarrior wrote:This should end this thread

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lM2xKKSB ... r_embedded[/code]
Wait... churches are suggesting that people line up and kill homosexuals? That's news to me.
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thegreekdog wrote:
KernowWarrior wrote:This should end this thread

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lM2xKKSB ... r_embedded[/code]
Wait... churches are suggesting that people line up and kill homosexuals? That's news to me.
The more radical ones are, yes.
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KernowWarrior wrote:
thegreekdog wrote:
KernowWarrior wrote:This should end this thread

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lM2xKKSB ... r_embedded[/code]
Wait... churches are suggesting that people line up and kill homosexuals? That's news to me.
The more radical ones are, yes.
How many of them do you think there are in the United States? How about as a percentage? I mean, I'm struggling here since I go to church on a weekly basis and I've been to about 50 or so churches in my life and have yet to hear a sermon suggesting death to gays. So I'm wondering whether I should be offended by this girl's statement.
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When you talk about such extremes, it takes only a relative few to cause serious and lasting harm to others. The analogy is similar to open KKKism. When it ever becomes more than a tiny contingent, it hurts.
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thegreekdog wrote:
KernowWarrior wrote:
thegreekdog wrote:
KernowWarrior wrote:This should end this thread

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lM2xKKSB ... r_embedded[/code]
Wait... churches are suggesting that people line up and kill homosexuals? That's news to me.
The more radical ones are, yes.
How many of them do you think there are in the United States? How about as a percentage? I mean, I'm struggling here since I go to church on a weekly basis and I've been to about 50 or so churches in my life and have yet to hear a sermon suggesting death to gays. So I'm wondering whether I should be offended by this girl's statement.
Nah- you're not struggling. You're pretending to struggle as a way of ignoring his point. Of course you can't dismiss his point, it's right there, and it's not a fake as far as I can tell. Some Christians do advocate the death of gay people.

Pretending otherwise is to say that you control who is or isn't Christian.

The fact that you haven't attended a church that advocates that particular view doesn't mean that it isn't advocated elsewhere, and certainly it's no argument against the video posted.
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thegreekdog wrote:
KernowWarrior wrote:
thegreekdog wrote:
KernowWarrior wrote:This should end this thread

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lM2xKKSB ... r_embedded[/code]
Wait... churches are suggesting that people line up and kill homosexuals? That's news to me.
The more radical ones are, yes.
How many of them do you think there are in the United States? How about as a percentage? I mean, I'm struggling here since I go to church on a weekly basis and I've been to about 50 or so churches in my life and have yet to hear a sermon suggesting death to gays. So I'm wondering whether I should be offended by this girl's statement.
I can tell you there have been more than a few incidents here in PA. I can also tell you I hear people around here espousing those views. And, yes, there is at least 1 church in my town that pretty much says that.. that is, they come just short of breaking the law, in public. You can be more is said outside of public venues.
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PLAYER57832 wrote:
thegreekdog wrote:
KernowWarrior wrote:
thegreekdog wrote:
KernowWarrior wrote:This should end this thread

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lM2xKKSB ... r_embedded[/code]
Wait... churches are suggesting that people line up and kill homosexuals? That's news to me.
The more radical ones are, yes.
How many of them do you think there are in the United States? How about as a percentage? I mean, I'm struggling here since I go to church on a weekly basis and I've been to about 50 or so churches in my life and have yet to hear a sermon suggesting death to gays. So I'm wondering whether I should be offended by this girl's statement.
I can tell you there have been more than a few incidents here in PA. I can also tell you I hear people around here espousing those views. And, yes, there is at least 1 church in my town that pretty much says that.. that is, they come just short of breaking the law, in public. You can be more is said outside of public venues.
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