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Re: I've Had Enough

Postby stahrgazer on Wed Aug 26, 2009 10:57 pm

Snorri1234 wrote:I agree with that. It's just that in this case it was obviously not a serious threat.


Why do threats have to be considered "serious threats" to constitute harassment, bullying, and other things that the site rules indicate won't be tolerated here? Should it matter who was threatening or bullying or harassing? Should it really matter whether the person has "proof" that whoever makes a threat or otherwise harasses, can actually fulfill the threat? Or should this be a site where the mods step in and ask a harasser to quiet himself/herself around people who dislike it; there are plenty of others who do not mind, why not go harass them instead?
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Re: I've Had Enough

Postby stahrgazer on Wed Aug 26, 2009 11:08 pm

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He isnt making any argument here, he is simply saying they didn't do enough, and he does so by flaming them, with no facts whatsoever.


I was accused of flaming mods, as well, with some complaints I had, which I kept mainly behind the scenes at the time but, on returning, came out of the closet about (sans names). Of course, one of the mods I was supposedly flaming "with no facts whatsoever" because the site took no action, recently admitted wrongdoing and playing favorites, enough to apologize these months later. There are those who think my continued posts still constitute flaming, but those persons are incorrect. My posts on the subject constitute an attempt to alert enough members to a few problems here so that those problems will be fixed. As it happens, Woodruff was one of the members who thought I was wrong to make my posts, but my answer to him was, "wait till something happens to you that you do not like and mods/admin will not address it."

Unfortunately, it appears from the original post that something did occur that Woodruff felt the site did not properly address. I'm sad that something uncomfortable enough happened to someone else; uncomfortable enough that he chose to leave - as I did for a while - rather than stay. Whether any harassment or threats have potential for "real concern" or not.
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Re: I've Had Enough

Postby xelabale on Thu Aug 27, 2009 6:41 am

I'm going to kill you all. I know where you live. America, England, Holland. It may take me a while but I'll get you all.

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Re: I've Had Enough

Postby GENERAL STONEHAM on Thu Aug 27, 2009 9:21 am

xelabale wrote:I'm going to kill you all. I know where you live. America, England, Holland. It may take me a while but I'll get you all.

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Re: I've Had Enough

Postby AAFitz on Thu Aug 27, 2009 9:44 am

stahrgazer wrote:
AAFitz wrote:
He isnt making any argument here, he is simply saying they didn't do enough, and he does so by flaming them, with no facts whatsoever.


I was accused of flaming mods, as well, with some complaints I had, which I kept mainly behind the scenes at the time but, on returning, came out of the closet about (sans names). Of course, one of the mods I was supposedly flaming "with no facts whatsoever" because the site took no action, recently admitted wrongdoing and playing favorites, enough to apologize these months later. There are those who think my continued posts still constitute flaming, but those persons are incorrect. My posts on the subject constitute an attempt to alert enough members to a few problems here so that those problems will be fixed. As it happens, Woodruff was one of the members who thought I was wrong to make my posts, but my answer to him was, "wait till something happens to you that you do not like and mods/admin will not address it."

Unfortunately, it appears from the original post that something did occur that Woodruff felt the site did not properly address. I'm sad that something uncomfortable enough happened to someone else; uncomfortable enough that he chose to leave - as I did for a while - rather than stay. Whether any harassment or threats have potential for "real concern" or not.


There is nothing I disagree with here, except that, if you feel you are wronged by the mods, that does not give you the right to flame them, make such accusations in that manner, especially since in this case, it was based on an action that didnt even happen yet, and further, possibly would happen, defacto, by simply following the rules.

Woodruff was correct his opinion that you flaming the mods was inappropriate, whatever happened. It simply isnt necessary, under any circumstances. An unemotional, explanation is always sufficient, and almost always more effective.

In any case, woodruff wanted something here...presumably the identity of someone on CC...which of course is against their policy, and possibly against the law... he got frustrated and went off on them. Obviously he had good reason for wanting the information, but its also obvious his only recourse was ever going to be to go through legal channels, because only by doing so, would CC be legally allowed to divulge such info.

Im sure if the situation was reversed, and someone said they had good reason for wanting to know the identity of woodruff, that he would not want them to give out that identity, and certainly would have possible legal recourse if they did give out his identity and personal information, without legal orders and permission to do so. I honestly dont see how this is not obvious to any reading this thread.

Just as Woodruff is scared for his life, because he got a death threat from someone, woodruff himself could actually be someone, capable of violoence, and could in fact be requesting the information to initiate that violence. There is simply no way to know on this forum and venue. There is no way to know even in real life in such situations, which is why personal information about customers is rarely given out, and certainly only given out in a legally approved manner.

So, the reason woodruff is wrong in the way he handled this, is because he is flaming the site, for not doing something, he must know they really just cant do, without becoming legally responsible themselves. He is also flaming them for lying in some future posts that may or may never happen, and essentially, is trying to insinuate that the site is responsible for the whole situation, when in fact, it is very obvious that it is the person making the threat that is the sole responsible party. It is unfortunate that more cant be done by CC, but they certainly are not the law, and certainly just cant take the word of one player over another and start giving out personal information at will.

If the other player says that woodruff threatened his life and family, should CC give woodruffs info to him? Of course not. This is all plainly obvious, and as I said, its a damn shame it had to go this way, and its of course the fault of the kid who was foolish, and low enough to make a death threat to a man with a family and students, who unfortunately is forced to take it seriously, because he cant risk their safety by ignoring its seriousness, however unlikely he may even feel the the risk is.

The person making such a threat got exactly what he wanted. He got woodruff to leave, got him to flame a site that he loved and supported and had many friends on, and forced him to pay for legal fees in an effort to protect his safety. It is an absolute shame, and on a personal level, I hope if any wrongdoing was committed, and if any laws were broken, that the person who did them, is found and held accountable for them. I also hope the situation becomes public at some point enough to warn others not to be so stupid as to mess around with such things.
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Re: I've Had Enough

Postby Mr Changsha on Thu Aug 27, 2009 10:10 am

Not sure why I was blessed with the inside info (and I've not posted for a day or two because I wondered if there is some reason why I shouldn't...but I can't think that there is), but I don't think it is Chaosfactor...mainly because the stalker-freak is from Canada.

I think the chaosfactor thread and this were just coincidental.

Beyond that, I am about 100% sure that woodruff wouldn't have taken chaosfactor's thread seriously at all.

Andy's comment about Woodruff not contacting them seems a touch strange...as again my little birdie told me that he'd been in contact with Team CC for a while, without any obvious movement from their side. Hence the flaming.
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Re: I've Had Enough

Postby AAFitz on Thu Aug 27, 2009 10:32 am

Mr Changsha wrote:Not sure why I was blessed with the inside info (and I've not posted for a day or two because I wondered if there is some reason why I shouldn't...but I can't think that there is), but I don't think it is Chaosfactor...mainly because the stalker-freak is from Canada.

I think the chaosfactor thread and this were just coincidental.

Beyond that, I am about 100% sure that woodruff wouldn't have taken chaosfactor's thread seriously at all.

Andy's comment about Woodruff not contacting them seems a touch strange...as again my little birdie told me that he'd been in contact with Team CC for a while, without any obvious movement from their side. Hence the flaming.


Again, you have to feel for the guy if he felt he was pushed off the site by someone, and certainly that is the cause of the flaming, and while unfortunate, is of course understandable, and certainly forgivable.

However, it really is obvious that the site is powerless to do anything in this kind of a situation without legal authorization, so really. I mean, if the other person asked for woodruffs info, I truly hope they would not give it to him, just because he was suggesting he needed it, or felt his life was in danger.

Further, this whole situation and public post is just unfair, because he has his secret info, you have your secret info, and the site is bound by confidentiality to not disclose any of the facts of a case like this.

So essentially, anyone could simply flame the site, say the site wronged them, call them liars, and by not providing any details, implies the site actually was wrong, without giving the site any real chance to explain the situation. Im hardly suggesting woodruff should have divulged the info either. Openly accusing a player of breaking the law by name, probably has its own legal issues, but its also why the post was unfair.

Its a legal issue. Its a private issue. In the end I hope everything works out for all, but whatever happened, it really doesnt justify the post, and even if hes completely correct and the post is fair, it is still unfair, because its posted with no evidence, and no real chance of evidence ever being provided.

Its just a malicious goodbye, born of frustration, and its a shame because woodruff really was a good guy, was reasonable, and the epitome of a reasonable adult voice on CC. I hardly think less of him, but I sure wish he kept his frustration more private, until resolving the situation through the obvious legal channels, that a case like this would necessarily need to be handled in.
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Re: I've Had Enough

Postby Mr Changsha on Thu Aug 27, 2009 10:43 am

AAFitz wrote:
Mr Changsha wrote:Not sure why I was blessed with the inside info (and I've not posted for a day or two because I wondered if there is some reason why I shouldn't...but I can't think that there is), but I don't think it is Chaosfactor...mainly because the stalker-freak is from Canada.

I think the chaosfactor thread and this were just coincidental.

Beyond that, I am about 100% sure that woodruff wouldn't have taken chaosfactor's thread seriously at all.

Andy's comment about Woodruff not contacting them seems a touch strange...as again my little birdie told me that he'd been in contact with Team CC for a while, without any obvious movement from their side. Hence the flaming.


Again, you have to feel for the guy if he felt he was pushed off the site by someone, and certainly that is the cause of the flaming, and while unfortunate, is of course understandable, and certainly forgivable.

However, it really is obvious that the site is powerless to do anything in this kind of a situation without legal authorization, so really. I mean, if the other person asked for woodruffs info, I truly hope they would not give it to him, just because he was suggesting he needed it, or felt his life was in danger.

Further, this whole situation and public post is just unfair, because he has his secret info, you have your secret info, and the site is bound by confidentiality to not disclose any of the facts of a case like this.

So essentially, anyone could simply flame the site, say the site wronged them, call them liars, and by not providing any details, implies the site actually was wrong, without giving the site any real chance to explain the situation. Im hardly suggesting woodruff should have divulged the info either. Openly accusing a player of breaking the law by name, probably has its own legal issues, but its also why the post was unfair.

Its a legal issue. Its a private issue. In the end I hope everything works out for all, but whatever happened, it really doesnt justify the post, and even if hes completely correct and the post is fair, it is still unfair, because its posted with no evidence, and no real chance of evidence ever being provided.

Its just a malicious goodbye, born of frustration, and its a shame because woodruff really was a good guy, was reasonable, and the epitome of a reasonable adult voice on CC. I hardly think less of him, but I sure wish he kept his frustration more private, until resolving the situation through the obvious legal channels, that a case like this would necessarily need to be handled in.


Hence why I was quite careful with my wording. I just wanted to point out that Chaosfactor (almost certainly) shouldn't be getting it in the neck for this...I felt the revealing the country the stalker comes from was the simplest way of doing that.

Beyond that, I feel for woodruff. The threat seemed real enough to me and I suspect he did the right thing in leaving he site, at least for a while (though I'm not saying I have any idea if/when he would return).

With regards to the mod. flaming, I agree there is something richly (darkly?) ironic about woodruff letting loose at Team CC. We must draw our own conclusions on what kind of provocation would inspire woodruff to flame away at them.

I'm not sure about whether Team CC are unable or unwilling to comment as I am no expert on the law.

Anyway, just dropped by to suggest (strongly) that chaosfactor is not a cyber-stalker!
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Re: I've Had Enough

Postby clapper011 on Thu Aug 27, 2009 10:51 am

Mr Changsha wrote:Not sure why I was blessed with the inside info (and I've not posted for a day or two because I wondered if there is some reason why I shouldn't...but I can't think that there is), but I don't think it is Chaosfactor...mainly because the stalker-freak is from Canada.

I think the chaosfactor thread and this were just coincidental.

Beyond that, I am about 100% sure that woodruff wouldn't have taken chaosfactor's thread seriously at all.

Andy's comment about Woodruff not contacting them seems a touch strange...as again my little birdie told me that he'd been in contact with Team CC for a while, without any obvious movement from their side. Hence the flaming.

umm..chaos is not from canada to my knoweldge... hes from england.....uk..... :| oh and..unless your "little birdie" was an admin...i'm not so sure any of us truly know what has happened in this particular case or situation...
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Re: I've Had Enough

Postby AAFitz on Thu Aug 27, 2009 10:52 am

Mr Changsha wrote:
AAFitz wrote:
Mr Changsha wrote:Not sure why I was blessed with the inside info (and I've not posted for a day or two because I wondered if there is some reason why I shouldn't...but I can't think that there is), but I don't think it is Chaosfactor...mainly because the stalker-freak is from Canada.

I think the chaosfactor thread and this were just coincidental.

Beyond that, I am about 100% sure that woodruff wouldn't have taken chaosfactor's thread seriously at all.

Andy's comment about Woodruff not contacting them seems a touch strange...as again my little birdie told me that he'd been in contact with Team CC for a while, without any obvious movement from their side. Hence the flaming.


Again, you have to feel for the guy if he felt he was pushed off the site by someone, and certainly that is the cause of the flaming, and while unfortunate, is of course understandable, and certainly forgivable.

However, it really is obvious that the site is powerless to do anything in this kind of a situation without legal authorization, so really. I mean, if the other person asked for woodruffs info, I truly hope they would not give it to him, just because he was suggesting he needed it, or felt his life was in danger.

Further, this whole situation and public post is just unfair, because he has his secret info, you have your secret info, and the site is bound by confidentiality to not disclose any of the facts of a case like this.

So essentially, anyone could simply flame the site, say the site wronged them, call them liars, and by not providing any details, implies the site actually was wrong, without giving the site any real chance to explain the situation. Im hardly suggesting woodruff should have divulged the info either. Openly accusing a player of breaking the law by name, probably has its own legal issues, but its also why the post was unfair.

Its a legal issue. Its a private issue. In the end I hope everything works out for all, but whatever happened, it really doesnt justify the post, and even if hes completely correct and the post is fair, it is still unfair, because its posted with no evidence, and no real chance of evidence ever being provided.

Its just a malicious goodbye, born of frustration, and its a shame because woodruff really was a good guy, was reasonable, and the epitome of a reasonable adult voice on CC. I hardly think less of him, but I sure wish he kept his frustration more private, until resolving the situation through the obvious legal channels, that a case like this would necessarily need to be handled in.


Hence why I was quite careful with my wording. I just wanted to point out that Chaosfactor (almost certainly) shouldn't be getting it in the neck for this...I felt the revealing the country the stalker comes from was the simplest way of doing that.

Beyond that, I feel for woodruff. The threat seemed real enough to me and I suspect he did the right thing in leaving he site, at least for a while (though I'm not saying I have any idea if/when he would return).

With regards to the mod. flaming, I agree there is something richly (darkly?) ironic about woodruff letting loose at Team CC. We must draw our own conclusions on what kind of provocation would inspire woodruff to flame away at them.

I'm not sure about whether Team CC are unable or unwilling to comment as I am no expert on the law.

Anyway, just dropped by to suggest (strongly) that chaosfactor is not a cyber-stalker!


Well, they arent able to comment, because it would be personal information, which would be against their own forum rules, let alone the actual ones which certainly do not allow for public allogations of illicit behavior in a case like this. It could easily be considered slander, and liable, though Im no expert either.

And thats the problem with woodruffs flame. We must draw our own conclusions, because thats all we would ever be able to do,

Whats really unfortunate, is Id love to see woodruffs thoughts on the subject. I also think maybe he should have perhaps changed his profile, to not include his location, after leaving. I mean, to leave your town name on your profile after flaming a site for not doing everything they could to protect his safety seems a bit odd. Im sure it was an oversight, but its certainly an unfortunate one.
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Re: I've Had Enough

Postby PLAYER57832 on Thu Aug 27, 2009 11:11 am

In regards to Woodruff, while I know nothing more than is said here about the specifics, I DO know that any time legal action is involved, people clam up by necessity.

Woodruff made his choice, he was not thrown out. Whether he was dealt with reasonably or not is for the lawyers and perhaps even courts (if it gets that far) to sort out. I am sad he left, but it happened.

For us, I see 2 concerns. The first is whether CC is taking what threats we know about seriously. I would have to say no, given my experience. I say "no" because the truth is CC is not in a position, usually, to know if threats are or are not real. Chaosfactor's threats really seem silly to me, but they also seem beyond what folks should have to put up with on a casual gaming site. That is probably the main key. If its a game and no one complains.. you can say its "just between friends". However, I don't think anyone who doesn't wish to hear threats should have to do so, just like foul language should be something not everyone has to be subjected to.

The second is site safety/integrity. Most of those concerns were clarified back with the "Wicked" incidents. Very few people have acces to our real information unless we let it out ourselves. I actually praise CC for taking a tough stance on people who do let out even their own information, mostly because a number of people here, even those technically above the age of majority, tend to be rather blase about it in ways that can bite them.. and perhaps CC, eventually.

The sad truth is that if there is any reality to these accusations, the likely outcome is shutting down of CC forums. I don't know that will happen, but it seems a likely business move. Either they take steps to control or simply eliminate the problem and I have a feeling every one of these issues that come up is tacking another straw on the camels back (or nail in the coffin ... pick your analogy).
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Re: I've Had Enough

Postby PLAYER57832 on Thu Aug 27, 2009 11:14 am

Snorri1234 wrote:
PLAYER57832 wrote:The problem today is that you never really know if someone has your true information or not and, particularly on the internet, don't know if someone will or not act upon it. At least, most site administrators don't have the tools to know.

So, ALL threats like that really need to be taken as if they were serious unless it is pretty clear they are not.


I agree with that. It's just that in this case it was obviously not a serious threat.


I mean, it was chaosfactor! The degenerate brit who only comes on this site when he's drunk to post some incomprehensible gibberish.

I believe you are misinterpreting. Someone suggested chaosfactor in this thread, but that was just speculation. Personally, I highly doubt it was chaos, particularly not the quoted thread. Woodruff specifically mentioned private contact and knowledge of his real life.
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Re: I've Had Enough

Postby GENERAL STONEHAM on Thu Aug 27, 2009 11:15 am

clapper011 wrote:
Mr Changsha wrote:Not sure why I was blessed with the inside info (and I've not posted for a day or two because I wondered if there is some reason why I shouldn't...but I can't think that there is), but I don't think it is Chaosfactor...mainly because the stalker-freak is from Canada.

I think the chaosfactor thread and this were just coincidental.

Beyond that, I am about 100% sure that woodruff wouldn't have taken chaosfactor's thread seriously at all.

Andy's comment about Woodruff not contacting them seems a touch strange...as again my little birdie told me that he'd been in contact with Team CC for a while, without any obvious movement from their side. Hence the flaming.

umm..chaos is not from canada to my knoweldge... hes from england.....uk..... :| oh and..unless your "little birdie" was an admin...i'm not so sure any of us truly know what has happened in this particular case or situation...



Ummm, err, did you read Mr. Changsha post? He wrote, " but I don't think it is Chaosfactor...mainly because the stalker-freak is from Canada."

Also, what is with these apologists for C.C. Moderators? Woodruff is obviously "scared" and was seeking some type of immediate attention from C.C. I guess the Moderators number 1 priority is replying and salvaging their reputation from the likes of Mr. Changsha and others who point out the hypocritical policies and downright horrible punishments issued to the regular and paying customers who post their dislikes of C.C. biased policies.

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Re: I've Had Enough

Postby PLAYER57832 on Thu Aug 27, 2009 11:18 am

danfrank wrote:I have seen reference to CC being a private company , this point is irrelevant . CC as an entity has an obligation to preserve individual rights.


No, they only need to comply with the law on this matter and the law, right now, in the US, is pretty scetchy. I believe CC is based in Canada, so I am not even sure if US laws apply (except that it does do business in the US).
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Re: I've Had Enough

Postby pimpdave on Thu Aug 27, 2009 11:26 am

chaosfactor is nothing to be worried about.
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Re: I've Had Enough

Postby Mr Changsha on Thu Aug 27, 2009 11:33 am

clapper011 wrote:
Mr Changsha wrote:Not sure why I was blessed with the inside info (and I've not posted for a day or two because I wondered if there is some reason why I shouldn't...but I can't think that there is), but I don't think it is Chaosfactor...mainly because the stalker-freak is from Canada.

I think the chaosfactor thread and this were just coincidental.

Beyond that, I am about 100% sure that woodruff wouldn't have taken chaosfactor's thread seriously at all.

Andy's comment about Woodruff not contacting them seems a touch strange...as again my little birdie told me that he'd been in contact with Team CC for a while, without any obvious movement from their side. Hence the flaming.

umm..chaos is not from canada to my knoweldge... hes from england.....uk..... :| oh and..unless your "little birdie" was an admin...i'm not so sure any of us truly know what has happened in this particular case or situation...


Read first...THEN comment.

Just a tip...

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Re: I've Had Enough

Postby AAFitz on Thu Aug 27, 2009 11:35 am

PLAYER57832 wrote:In regards to Woodruff, while I know nothing more than is said here about the specifics, I DO know that any time legal action is involved, people clam up by necessity.

Woodruff made his choice, he was not thrown out. Whether he was dealt with reasonably or not is for the lawyers and perhaps even courts (if it gets that far) to sort out. I am sad he left, but it happened.

For us, I see 2 concerns. The first is whether CC is taking what threats we know about seriously. I would have to say no, given my experience. I say "no" because the truth is CC is not in a position, usually, to know if threats are or are not real. Chaosfactor's threats really seem silly to me, but they also seem beyond what folks should have to put up with on a casual gaming site. That is probably the main key. If its a game and no one complains.. you can say its "just between friends". However, I don't think anyone who doesn't wish to hear threats should have to do so, just like foul language should be something not everyone has to be subjected to.

The second is site safety/integrity. Most of those concerns were clarified back with the "Wicked" incidents. Very few people have acces to our real information unless we let it out ourselves. I actually praise CC for taking a tough stance on people who do let out even their own information, mostly because a number of people here, even those technically above the age of majority, tend to be rather blase about it in ways that can bite them.. and perhaps CC, eventually.

The sad truth is that if there is any reality to these accusations, the likely outcome is shutting down of CC forums. I don't know that will happen, but it seems a likely business move. Either they take steps to control or simply eliminate the problem and I have a feeling every one of these issues that come up is tacking another straw on the camels back (or nail in the coffin ... pick your analogy).


I agree with a lot of this, but strongly disagree with the last part. There would be no reason to shut down the forums, simply because one person decided to use it for harm. That threat, especially on the internet, is always there, always has been there, and is implied in the act of using it. Everyone takes their chances that they might accidentally motivate some violence against themselves on the internet, and in life. The simple act of flipping the bird to someone while driving may get you just as killed, as typing out a counter argument to someone who happens to be crazy on here.

Its the chance you take, and while some dont take it as seriously as others, I dont think any are oblivious to the threat. And, its fairly clear that CC is not a legal authority, and only makes the forum available. All they can do is not divulge personal information, and possibly not advocate the distribution of personal information. They could go as far as to forbid it too, but thats really the limit of their power. If legally authorized, or obliged, they can then distribute personal information to a legal representation, but Certainly there is no way they could just give me some guys information, simply because he was threatening me. It would be reckless, and far more reckless than not giving out the information.

The craigslist murders are an unfortunate example. Allegedly, someone systematically targeted women through craigslist, and murdered them. This however, is not craigslists fault. All the warnings are there. The act was very unexpected, and very rare, but certainly not out of the realm of possibility. Im sure things have changed, and the warnings have been more clear as they always would be in a case like this...but they are also national news, and I doubt many in this forum did not hear about it.

Certainly woodruff as a teacher would have known the possible risks of being on the internet, and as a husband, and a teacher, probably should have taken great pains to make sure that nothing in his identity could easily lead anyone to his home...as we all should have. However, most people are trustworthy, and as such, trusting, so we dont take the precautions we possibly should, but at the same time, that does not mean we are not aware of the risks...it simply means we choose to ignore them, or rate them as low enough not to worry about.

Myself, I found my current fiancee through computer dating. It was highly uncomfortable. Quite frankly some of the women were reckless and others were justifiably cautious. Hell, even at one point one of my employees was afraid that I was abducted by my online date when I didnt answer the door. Technically, I suppose I was, but I didnt object to it. ;)

So, unless CC actually did provide some personal info themselves, and foolishly gave woodruffs info to the alleged assaulter, they really cant be held responsible for what anyone does, unless its repeat behavior that should have been stopped.

At any time, any one of us could make a death threat to any other member. Its an obvious situation. Luckilly, most of us are not deranged, and not insane enough to want to, let alone enough to actually do it, but the threat is always there, as the threat of violence is always there, in any place where two humans share the same space, as it always has been, and always will be. Its unfortunate, but we can only let criminals affect our behavior so much. We can only let them make us afraid to a certain point, and for the most part, we must stand up to them, and deal with them as we are allowed to legally.

Again I post platos line, "when there is crime in society, there can be no justice" It is an unfortunate, but universal truth. All we can do is rise above the crime and the criminals, and fight them slowly but surely over time, as the human race always has, and hopefully always will.

Its a tough job to take essentially violent animals with creativity, intelligence, and an essential instinct for killing, and create an environment where they live together and do not act out on these instincts. While much progress has been made, certainly much improvement is needed, but hopefully, as time goes on, a more balanced civilized community of humans will eventually dominate the planet. In the mean time, all we can do is hope for the safety of ours, and do our best to combat crime, if even on the smallest level.

That is why I commented on Woodruffs response. Hes getting mad at a site that realistically is fairly powerless to protect against this kind of behavior. And instead of focusing all of his anger at the person responsible, who is acting on his own power, he aimed some of his frustration and anger at the site, which will, of course, have presumably given the alleged assaulter exactly what he was going for. I do hope in the end though, that he pays dearly for this.

Unfortunately, Im going to guess its just some kid, and the only hope is that he simply learns from his mistake.
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Re: I've Had Enough

Postby nagerous on Thu Aug 27, 2009 11:55 am

doesn't anyone here have a job?
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Re: I've Had Enough

Postby PLAYER57832 on Thu Aug 27, 2009 12:09 pm

AAFitz

Good post. I won't quote it all. However, 2 points.

First, I agree that if CC did not let the information get out (if they did not take sufficient security), they are not directly responsible. I won't cite any legal precedents (such as Craig's list) because the jurisdiction differs and this is an area where the law is still in flux, being changed almost continually. (the result of new technology, powers, etc.).

When I talk about forum shutdown or leven just serious curtailment, I mean that this is, as we have been told repeatedly, a gaming site. If the forums get to be too much of a bother, any business would just eliminate them. I am not privy to the data, the reasoning, etc. Right now, the forums are serving a purpose.. either just the desire of admin or, more likely, they are helping to keep this an active site. However, that balance could tip. Lawsuits, continual harrassment of mods, complaints that don't end and general bickering are certainly moving that balance closer to the tipping point.

I suspect that as yet, the "tipping point" is pretty far. However, that could change. That was my only real point.

That is also, (a point I know you realize, but maybe others don't) why I do make suggestions about clarifying rules and policies, even the occasional complaint. I do so because I want the site to stay. Not just the site, but the forums.
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Re: I've Had Enough

Postby jonesthecurl on Thu Aug 27, 2009 12:27 pm

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Re: I've Had Enough

Postby Fruitcake on Thu Aug 27, 2009 2:17 pm

nagerous wrote:doesn't anyone here have a job?


Well I don't, but then I was born rich.
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Re: I've Had Enough

Postby nagerous on Thu Aug 27, 2009 3:30 pm

Fruitcake wrote:
nagerous wrote:doesn't anyone here have a job?


Well I don't, but then I was born rich.



So was I.
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Re: I've Had Enough

Postby GENERAL STONEHAM on Thu Aug 27, 2009 4:36 pm

nagerous wrote:
Fruitcake wrote:
nagerous wrote:doesn't anyone here have a job?


Well I don't, but then I was born rich.



So was I.






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Re: I've Had Enough

Postby Georgerx7di on Thu Aug 27, 2009 5:21 pm

I meant to find out what the threats were. However the Original post was as longer than the average post by fitz. It would be nice to see a short post explaining what the people did.
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Re: I've Had Enough

Postby GENERAL STONEHAM on Thu Aug 27, 2009 9:19 pm

Georgerx7di wrote:I meant to find out what the threats were. However the Original post was as longer than the average post by fitz. It would be nice to see a short post explaining what the people did.



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