jj3044 wrote:Phatscotty wrote:save up as much as you guys can.....so that you will have to borrow less.
How is the market out your way?  how many days does the average home stay for sale on the market, and what is the median home price out there?
Yup, we have been saving nonstop since we got married.  I (we) own a 2 family house currently, and rent out the other apartment.  The plan is to keep the current house and rent out our apartment also and let this house pay for itself.
In the area we are looking in, median sales price is about $340,000, down from $440,000 in 2005.  Houses are staying on the market a long time generally... hundreds of days (literally).  However, there are very few in the range we are looking in, which is around the median price.
 
what is your states unemployment?  I'm gonna guess RI is running deficits right?  (just wondering if any other external factors are out of whack)
If I'm not mistaken, generally speaking if houses stay on the market for longer than 120 days, it means the market is contracting and prices are likely to continue to drop, and vice versa for a market that averages less than 120 days.  There is also something to be said for the %'s of houses on market that are over 500k, and under.  The median price partially reflects that, but when the ratio of houses over 500k to under grows too large, then you can't use the median index so reliably as a gauge for what is happening to the prices of homes under 500k.
I know this is not the east coast and that all your prices are higher for everything, and Minnesota's economy has generally been one of the healthiest throughout this recession and we are currently running a surplus (DTOM  

 ) ....but our median sales price actually rose recently for the first time in a long time, but on the other hand, our rental market is still white hot. The top rental placement agencies are boasting filling empty houses on averages of 7-10 days.  So check the rental market too.  If it's hot there chances are the environment to get a loan and build a house should continue to become more favorable.  
Interest rate just hit an all time low, at least since we started keeping track around 1970, so if you have good credit the timing could not be better for a loan, but in my opinion I think the rate will still go lower for a myriad of reasons.  But if you are doing this the smart way, and it sounds like you are, than the more you prepare financially for this the less concerned you will have to be about the loan side of it.
Timing is 
EVERYTHING!