john9blue wrote:patches, it sounds like the person you linked to took great care to provide a definition of racism that would exclude instances such as the black girl who would not date outside her own race. just because someone's gut tells them that something that is acceptable in society MUST NOT BE RACIST doesn't mean that they can change the definition of a word to fit their beliefs.
The black girl who would not date outside her race (or a white girl for that matter) is not racist.
The definition of racism-
a belief or doctrine that inherent differences among the various human races determine cultural or individual achievement, usually involving the idea that one's own race is superior and has the right to rule others.Having a preference for a race or ethnicity in regards to sexual preferences is not racist. Homosexuals prefer members of the same gender, does that make them racist because they won't date members of the opposite sex that happen to be of a different ethnicity? Of course not. It's a preference.
There is nothing racist about the desire to preserve one's cultural and ethnic heritage either. It's prejudice probably, biased certainly, but it isn't racist. There is plenty of room in the world for all ethnicity and cultures. If individuals want to gather and congregate within their own particular ethnic niche then so be it. If others wish to branch out that's fine as well. There is no right or wrong, it just is what it is. Individual choice.
Now if we go around telling the Asian (or black, white, Jew, Yellow, Purple, Green) family that wanting their sons and daughters to marry within the Asian race and call them racist we just foment hatred. The sons and daughters will make their own choices soon enough. It doesn't help much that instead of using calm reason to inform and address preconceived motions but instead bellow "You Racist!" is contrary to productive. That in itself is as hateful as a typical racist.
A racist on the other hand holds no room in the world for other ethnicity or cultures. It is a gross injustice just lumping prejudice into the same realm as racists.
Neotony wrote:I sorta like how patches thinks a possible biological imperative somehow morally justifies a prejudice.
Then why don't you read why we are like that.
http://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q= ... yJ06bIWteAWhy don't you have a distinction between prejudice and racism?
Why not go through life and completely ignore any and all preconceived notions you have about everything. Like walking out into the street without looking or considering that any driver that might be there just might not see you.
When a big ass pit bull is charging straight at you just go ahead and assume it
isn't going to bite the shit out of you and maul your ass and instead think- "Oh, look, the little puppy dog wants to say hi!"
When going through seedy neighborhoods go ahead and let go of all prejudice and flash a bunch of cash around. Surely no one would rob you or worse, right?
That's how prejudice benefits us. That's how it keeps us safe. By making judgments on situations and people based on incomplete information. We do it every god damn day of our lives. Sometimes it's good for us. Sometimes it just isn't rational. Either way, it's part of the human mind and there is nothing you rabid haters can do to change that.