Night Strike wrote:PLAYER57832 wrote:Night Strike wrote: PLAYER57832 wrote:But who are you to say? AND given there is so much disagreement, what right do you have to claim enough superiority to tell other people, many of whom are not even Christian, that they must follow your personal ideas?
That is the real crux. For someone who is supposedly all about freedom, you strangely are quite happy to tell other people how to live when its your ideas being promoted. Seems your idea of freedom is just for everyone to live the way you want, not the way they want.
No, people can live however they want as long as they don't hurt other people. However, that does not mean I have to agree with what they do or that society is forced to change their laws to conform to those other lifestyles. I can say a lifestyle is wrong and they would still be free to do it.
Nope, you cannot have it both ways. Either you have the right to dictate how other people live or you do not. I say you do not. You claim you do. That is not freedom, it is dictating. That you feel you are morally justified is irrelevant. Pretending this is somehow forcing you to agree with a "lifestyle" is a false argument. The debate is not whether you like or agree, its whether you have the right to dictate to other people how they should live.
PS. point to the New Testament passage that prohibits homosexuality?
Romans 1 talks about how homosexual activities are unnatural and shameful. That means they are not holy, which is what all Christians are called to be.
Actually, no. It talks about homosexuality as one result of not following God. It is a fine distinction, but an important one. Homosexuality is a symptom, not a cause.
BUT, and this is important, my dispute is twofold. Christians absolutely disagree on this issue, so by definition there is no clear mandate. Second, even if that were not true, why would the Christian view on this even matter? Buddhists cannot by married in the Roman Catholic Church, just as an example. Protestants actually cannot, either. Why does it matter if Christians want to marry homosexuals or not?
Night Strike wrote:I never said people can't have homosexual relationships. I'm saying that society cannot be forced to recognize it has marriage.
Nope, that's bouncing around the issue as an excuse. It has no bearing on freedom.
If marriage is recognized, why does the state get to decide who should or should not marry? Why do YOU and your sense of morality get to dictate what the state does and does not recognize for tax and legal purposes? You are claiming a distinction without a difference. Heterosexuals can live together without an official marriage, yet many choose to get married. They see a benefit therein. Why should homosexuals be denied that ability just becuase you dislike the idea?
Night Strike wrote:You can have sex with any consenting adult that you want to have sex with, but that doesn't mean society must condone the activity or change its definition of marriage to conform to your personal actions. And no matter what the action is, I don't have to agree with an action to think it's permissible in our society. I also disagree with smoking and drinking, yet those things are permissible in our society.
I see, so according to you marriage is condoning of an activity? So why is it OK for the state to condone the marriages of Moonies, Hari Krishnas, etc -- all who live lives well outside the "normal" standards of our society, but homosexuals, who live so much like everyone else, you would know from the outside to be homosexuals, why should they be denied that recognition?
And, why is it that people like you get to make that decision instead of letting it up to the people involved?