crispybits wrote:Really? So churches don't tell you who you can and can't have sex with and try and dictate on contraceptive methods or having to go through with a deremony before you're even technically allowed to do it at all? Churches don't tell you that you can only eat certain kinds of food or only meat from animals slaughtered in a certain way? Churches don't tell you which kinds of thoughts you're allowed to have?
I would call that healthy advice, certainly not control. It's not like the Church can makes things illegal, or tax things, and it's all according to the lifestyle the follower has voluntarily chosen to learn about. Can I ask when is the last time you were in Church? Where are you getting that from that the Church tries to control your sex life and dictating contraceptives? That's plain ridiculous. Even if it were true, what does the Church do to you if you have sex with someone you are not supposed to, or use contraceptives? answer: nothing! They would only know if you voluntarily told them, and even then, so what, it's not like you go to jail or something....
crispybits wrote:Yes joining a church is optional, but if you choose to join then they control wayyyy more aspects of your personal life than government would ever try and do. In a way government is optional, don't like yours then emigrate to a country that is more suitable for you. Nothing is forcing you to stay. And while the churches stick and carrot are less noticable than a police officer turning up and throwing you in jail, or a social worker coming along and removing your kids from your care, they (if believed) are much, much more harsh in that the punishments they threaten are infinitely worse than anything the government could ever do to you.
c'mon man. Sure, you can leave the country if you don't like the government, but if you don't like the church, you simply don't have to go, or you can go to another one.....You are way exaggerating this whole issue of control. But humor us, give us some examples about how a church controls people. Contraceptives and sex life don't count, because the church cannot force you to do or not do something, and even if you do, you can keep it to yourself. It's just healthy advise. And the bit about government being optional because you can just renounce your citizenship, cmon man! No way church control comes anywhere close to government control, but I would explore anything examples you could give on the matter.
crispybits wrote:(and yes, by NGO I meant church, I was trying to make a political comparison between you hating governments trying to control things, and you being an apologist for a non-government organisation doing the exact same thing within a different, longer timescale context)
I don't hate government. I am part of the government for crying out loud!! I'm not an apologist simply because I made a post about the values of Christianity. What you are saying is so super stretched I'm not even sure we are going to be able to communicate when everything you say/believe about me is inaccurate, according to me anyways. But I'm not giving up on ya. Show me some good examples of how the church controls people in ways the government would never dream of, and if they are in fact good examples, I will have no choice but to agree with ya! If you really want to make a case out of the contraceptive/sex life issue as "control" I will listen to what you have to say, but I would like to hear about how that is "control"
Not to mention, there is constant government rules, regulations, taxes, procedures, etc etc that we all have to deal with everyday, and there are consequences if you step out if line even in the slightest way, like not wearing your seatbelt. I can't think of a single way the Church affects my life, certainly not on a daily basis. My church has ZERO power over me, and my government can take my property or my life and make it a living hell or audit me or ruin my reputation or force me out of business in a heartbeat anytime they want to. THAT's control!