Night Strike wrote:The only education being taught it how best to have sex, not how to say no to it. Many times flying in the face of the values the family is trying to teach their kids.
I see, so why is it, then that the rate of teen pregnancies DO DOWN when true sex education is implemented as opposed to the "abstinence only" garbage you claim is "superior?" (I gave several citations earlier, but google Texas teen pregnancy rates if you wish to see the data again).
Sex education does NOT teach "how best to have sex" and whome ever told you that is an absolute idiot or a flat out liar. (probably the latter)
What it really covers is the basic biology, the physical facts of how pregnancy occurs, what happens in fetal development (various life stages), impacts on the mother. A good program will go into prenatal nutrition, talk a bit about how nutrition. excercise, drugs/alchohol impact fetal health. It talks about STDs -- the symptoms and impacts of the diseases, how they are transmitted and yes, a bit about ways to help minimize risk of getting or transmitting disease. BUT, that nothing is 100% except abstinence. A good program talks a bit more than just the pure physical mechanics. It also talks about the difficulties in having a teen pregnancy (physically, emotionally, financially) and how easy it is for someone who thinks they "want to say no" to get cooerced into saying "yes". (One saying we got was "a kiss is upper persuasion for lower invasion") In most cases, morals/religion are not directly addressed, but parents are told IN ADVANCE (usually in an evening meeting, but with time made for parents who cannot attend then) what their kids will be taught so they can pair the school teachings with home education. Also, religion and ethics do tend to come in the teens discussions in class. The teacher's role there is to keep the kids respectful and considerate of their classmate's views, while ensuring that the basics are covered. How to prevent pregnancies and abortion are covered, along with real facts about the medical risks and the realities. Again, the fact that no birth control is 100% is absolutely covered. So is the emotional and physical impacts of abortion.. legal and illegal.
Night Strike wrote:NOW, explain how that is "teaching kids how best to have sex, how not to say no... flying in the face of the values the family is trying to teach.
Try actually looking into things before you go of the deep end.
The kind of education to which you refer is used for ADULTS who specifically seek out help with problems. This includes people who have been abused people who become disabled (or who are considering marrying/will marry) a disabled individual and others who need help with one aspect or another. Joke all you want, but some people do need "instructions". (and no.. we did not!)
Night Strike wrote:If elective abortions are disallowed, trying to have them would be like risking to do anything else illegal: if you choose to do it, you may get hurt. Murder is a risk that drug dealers and buyers take when they choose to break the law, so the consequences of obtaining an illegal abortion are what the woman chooses to risk.
I see, and the lives of any children that women might have ... those just don't matter , either?
Look, a MAJOR reason many women have or are advised to have abortions in later pregnancies is because going ahead, trying to carry a child with major, major issues often presents a serious risk to the mother's future child-bearing capacity. Its not just about not wanting to raise a disabled child, its also about wanting to protect future children that are not going to be disabled.
Night Strike wrote:Anyone who chooses to have sex takes on those risks and consequences and shouldn't be allowed a cop-out when it involves the termination of another life.
I see, so you are willing to do that?
OOOPS... you WILL NEVER HAVE TO FACE THAT CHOICE! So don't try to tell me what you would or would not do. YOU DO NOT KNOW!
And yes, I know of PLENTY of people who thought they "knew" only to find that their minds changed when they faced the real situation. You, obviously do not have enough life experience yet to have been down that road. HOW DARE YOU JUDGE THOSE WHO HAVE!
Furthermore, you just said in the first paragraph that you did not even want teens to KNOW the basics, so guess what.. without decent education, they are even more likely to have an at-risk birth. A child in young years, a child under poor health conditions (improper base nutrition, etc.).
You are not talking Christianity. You are talking your own personnal thoughts.
[/quote]Night Strike wrote:Killing a 4 month old baby is outlawed, so killing a baby 4 months from birth should be as well.
"killing" a 5 month fetus is not allowed except in extreme circumstances, such as when the mother's life is in danger.
OH... and did you happen to miss the part above where it specifically compares the rate of very liberal Netherlands to the very strict Communist Romania? The ABORTION RATE IN HOLLAND IS THE LOWEST IN THE WORLD... around 5.4% as compered to the US rate of around 28%.
ALSO.. DO note that the US rate includes physical removeal of miscarriages! That is the other big part you "knee jerkers" ignore. Because there is no definition of "life", no statistics are kept on whether a child already died prior to removal or not (unless the child is old enough to get a death certificate). Instead, the "abortion" rate looks purely at procedures. There is a roughly 30% pregnancy failure rate in the first trimester. So, a lot of those "nasty terrible murderers" are women in the very worst time of their life... and they have to face people like you, not only on the street, but even in the hospitals. I know, because that happened to me!