Phatscotty... I wasn't even addressing you. There was no reason that you had to stroll in and showcase your ignorance to everyone. But since you insist on doing so...
Phatscotty wrote:natty_dread wrote:PLAYER57832 wrote:Your statement rejecting the idea that a drug addict thinks. In order for your ideas to work, they would have to actually think. They don't and drugs numb the pain they do feel. More pain, at some point is more or less irrelevant. Or, simply moves them into more "depravity".. theft, prostitution, etc.
Not all drug addicts let their lives be completely destroyed by their drug addiction. Lots of drug addicts have jobs, are responsible people, who just happen to be addicted to drugs. You might even know some of them, you'd never think they are drug addicts. I've known some people who have kept a stable drug addiction (and I'm talking about hard drugs, not just cannabis) for years. They're sort of "in the closet" with their drug habit. They're afraid to seek help for their addiction, because it often means losing their job, possibly losing their children, etc.
and.......drug addicts never lose their jobs because of their addiction (Abusers NEVER call in sick cuz they got f'd up the night before, NEVER show up late either...), never let drugs make them do irresponsible things or make bad choices...
Way to strawman.
you got the cart in front of the horse on this one. Drug addiction leads to losing your job and making bad decisions. Either someone quits drugs or they go down in flames. There is no middle road here.
Ok, first of all, I can pretty confidently say that I have known more drug addicts than you have seen even on TV. I live in the poor part of the town, these things have been around me all my life. During the last 5 years I lost 3 very good friends who all died of drug overdoses - so I have no illusion of these things being harmless. On the other hand, I know way more than 3 people who lead perfectly normal lives, apart from being addicted to whatever substance. Some of them have jobs. Some of them have children. I also know some ex-addicts, most of whom quit as soon as they got kids in the equation.
So yeah, I can see how you'd like to pretend that it's a black-n-white issue... I can see how you'd love to believe all that stuff how you get hooked on the first try, how marijuana is a gateway drug, and how drugs will always destroy your life no matter what. After all, if you couldn't demonize drug users, you couldn't justify your campaign of discrimination.
Once someone is addicted, they will put their fix in front of things much more important than their job or responsibilities, they give up on life, commit suicide, leave family and children behind, live a life of depression, risk jail, commit crimes that harm people, I can go on and on.
Some of them do those things, yes. Some people also do those things without any drugs at all.
To your overall point though, sure some people can balance drug use and their job and still be responsible, but only in the beginning. Addiction does not stay at the same level, it grows hungrier and hungrier, (deeper and deeper too!) and tolerance gets built up higher and higher and the money and time spent gets more and more.
Yeah, you're obviously the expert.
Look, I've seen it first hand. I've seen both extremes: people who destroy themselves with drugs - and a lot of those people were good, smart, compassionate people who'd never hurt another soul, and I feel sad for those people every day because they couldn't find a better way to cope with life. I've also seen people keep their drug addiction in control for decades, while all the time having a job, raising children, etc. A lot depends on circumstances, personality, drug of choice, etc. But I've seen it.
Once again, Phatscotty, things aren't as clear-cut black-and-white as you'd like to believe. Drug addiction most definitely is not always like what you see in TV - in some cases it is, of course, but not always.