Symmetry wrote:patrickaa317 wrote:Symmetry wrote:patrickaa317 wrote:GreecePwns wrote:I'm not throwing on it. I'm just saying that there are reasons why the entire world isn't governed by one set of moral codes; because there is no one set of absolute moral codes that must be followed. There is no absolute morality, so let's not govern as if the majority religion's morality is absolute.
I'd agree with that which is why each state should decide issues that are more important to them (or however a country's process is designed, whether states have a voice in things or if it is decided by the top level). If NC decides not to allow gay marriage, that is there prerogative.
And, one would hope, you don't suspend your critical values at that point. After all, it is ok to say that you think the decision was wrong (and in this case, it seems kind of misinformed). Of course they didn't just ban gay marriage- any form of gay partnership seems to have been made illegal.
Putting it gently, you seem to have been conned into thinking this was a vote on gay marriage, as were many NC voters.
I don't think the decision was wrong. If some people do think it is wrong, they are free to leave North Carolina. As Greece pointed out, there is no need to have the whole world governed by one set of moral codes, each area should be able to determine what is best for them and their area.
And I wasn't conned into anything, I really don't care whether it was a vote on gay marriage, gay unions, or what color shirts people can wear on Tuesdays. It is a NC prerogative that doesn't impact me. Marriage & unions are not rights guaranteed to anyone therefore whatever a state decides doesn't deny anyone a right.
If you want to talk about misinformed, it may be relevant to bring up the title of the thread as it is misleading stating that gay people are not allowed in NC.
Ah, you're one of those kind of posters, unable to accept that you were mistaken, and liable to double down on your mistakes when they're pointed out. I'll reserve my only vaguely insulting bit of my argument to this section- you really do seem to have an anti-gay agenda on this. If you were truly neutral on the subject, of course, you'd have taken the correction and re-evaluated your misinformed position. Your re-stated position basically says that you never really believed in your original argument in the first place.
Hopefully, we'll get down to what you actually believe at some point, but I suspect you're as curious as I am.
Of course, I'll accept that the limitations of a thread title result in a little playful hyperbole from time to time, but let's face it, North Carolina enshrined in law that homosexuals be second class citizens. Not a huge leap.
No anti-gay agenda. Not having a pro-gay agenda does not equal having an anti-gay agenda.
Here's my stance on it since you seem so concerned. Feel free to demonize me afterwards, as I know you will.
Personally, I do not support gay marriage. I think marriage is something that should be between one man and one woman. HOWEVER, if a state wants to allow gay marriage by the process that is defined in their state (whether it be a ballot issue or through courts or through legislature), that is completely fine by me, I will accept the results though I cannot say that I would be ecstatic about them.
At the same token, if the state wants to disallow legal contracts between two parties, that is also up to them (as with everything, if the gov't has the power to give it to you, they also have the power to take it away from you), as long as they do it the way that these issues are handled in their state. In my opinion, not allowing civil unions between two parties does not equal making them second class citizens. Go ahead, take a few posts to call me some names now as you have previously. Perhaps throw out a few condescending comments or insults. I'm just wondering if you'll stick to the old reliable names & insults that you have used in the past or if you'll expand your horizons and get some new ones.

taking a break from cc, will be back sometime in the future.