Neoteny wrote:BigBallinStalin wrote:If person A criticizes a movement, you think that person A knows better than all the women within that movement. This is silly; perhaps you think there are no male feminists? Anyway, it's the underlying logic with your position. You remind me of the staunch welfare government advocate who insists that the free market guy wants poor people to die because he doesn't support the government provision of welfare.
Nope. That's what Freddy thinks Sady wants. Here's what Sady wants:
When Sady says "shut the f*ck up", she's not actually going for closing off the conversation. She's responding forcefully, and with some comedy, to the overwhelming privilege that men feel they should be allowed to be in everything, including, apparently, a place designated as a safe space for women to talk about feminism, and other things, without having to put up with the same shit they have to everywhere else. This is an issue that Americans in particular have, thinking that the right to free speech trumps everyone else's right to not have to listen to you, but it's an international problem as well. If a woman wants a man's opinion on feminism, she can go to reddit, or a news website, or outside her door. If she wants to laugh a bit and work on serious shit with other women without having to explain to a dude for the umpteenth time how "man-hating" is a phrase (and has been for decades) used to ridicule and intellectually demote the feminist movement as a whole despite the fact that it certainly does apply to some feminists, she can go to Tiger Beatdown. Again, Sady doesn't want all men to shut up about feminism. She appreciates plenty of men with feminist perspectives. She wants people like Freddy to consider his perspectives a bit more, especially because he is calling himself a feminist. There might be some "You don't agree with me" going on there, as it will go for any discussion with more than one side, but the majority of her point is to explain why the blog is a safe place, and it's exactly because of guys like Freddy. And I almost feel for the guy. I've read his blog posts on the topic, and he tries to be polite and makes an argument that is a sound one (guys can be feminists), though completely unnecessary (because everyone knows that already) and seems to completely miss the point as to why he isn't allowed to post on Tiger Beatdown. Which is another reason why he can't post on TB. It's a vicious circle.
So, Sady is trying to be funny (she mentions it's her livelihood) and make some points. What's not to like?
That criticism was aimed at your position, not Sady's, so I don't see the relevance here. The underlined is your position when applied consistently. If you don't like that, then why not acknowledge its silly implications?
Neoteny wrote:BigBallinStalin wrote:But let's advance. Here's my general position on feminism:
JB is marketing Feminism 4.0 or 3.0---I forget which wave it is. The earlier waves received a lot of flak because they ultimately advocated for inequality and sometimes radical positions, which were simply ridiculous. With Feminism 3.0, it's unnecessary to even support such a movement because of its history. If you're against Feminism 3.0, it's not the case that you're against women or equal rights--of course, the advocates for Feminism 3.0 would likely say otherwise; perhaps that tactic is part of the marketing plan too.
Feminism is a niche market. They're free to do whatever, as long as they're not hurting others. I'm simply not impressed, and regarding analytical frameworks, they don't have anything valuable to offer to me, but at least they've been driving themselves away from radicalism.
Thanks? Another dude monologuing about what he thinks feminism is and should be. Which is cool, I guess, but not the sort of thing I normally give two shits about, other than noting that it's occurring with snide one-liners.
I'm sorry that feminism is not useful for specific matters, but there's nothing wrong with that. Other analytical frameworks vary in their usefulness too.
It may be easy for you to disparage someone's criticism without reflecting on it seriously, but why not give it a shot? If a woman said the same, (and I've conversed with a few who hold similar opinions), then what would your response be?
(The "your not a woman" defense is as groundless as the "your not a Muslim; therefore ur argument is invalid!" defense).
In general, it's difficult to understand your position. Reading your response to TGD's is equally confusing. Are you emotionally responding to your own strawmen fallacies? Is that primarily the problem here?