...more time with her physical bf.
So basically, we met two years ago and she was my first hug, hand hold, kiss, etc. I bought her tons of gifts to lead up to telling her I loved her, and then I told her I loved her after a month and wanted to try having sex. She told me she ruined too many relationships because having sex with someone takes away from the mental aspect of the relationship. She wanted me to stay a pure virgin and love her as much as I always did.
This made perfect sense, and I agreed with her. Soon she said she wanted to have sex, but not with me for the reasons she stated before. She then said she had a friend she had sex with the night before because she had a strong urge to, and she would be having sex with him on a regular basis but would not love him like she loves me. This made me feel really good inside. She could even have sex with someone else and still love me! I was her "mental boyfriend" and he would be her "physical boyfriend".
For our anniversary we were going to book a trip to Venice as a romantic getaway. She told me we didn't need to do something like that, but she would love to have a sexual getaway with the other guy. She convinced me to pay for it, and I mutually agreed since I understand she needs to have sex and I can't provide her.
Now for our second anniversary I sent her and the guy to Prague for another trip, even though I was kind of hoping to go to Euro Disney with her for a fun time. It is getting kind of frustrating she won't go on a trip with me and then him later.
What should I do?
bravo
if she loved you she wouldn't be going off on vacations with other guys ****ing their brains out all the while you're paying for her to do it...
