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I think you should focus on the fact that you asked sabotage to rate each one... and he didn't do that.mrswdk wrote:The man in the other thread said that he explicitly denied consent. You are now verging on what is commonly known as a 'double standard'.
No, actually, it's not. It's sex without consent. That's why statutory rape exists (the idea being someone under the age of 18 cannot give consent)._sabotage_ wrote:Rape is forced sex.
In the other thread he explicitly said that he doesn't care what the legal definition is and has his own opinion on what defines rape.thegreekdog wrote:No, actually, it's not. It's sex without consent. That's why statutory rape exists (the idea being someone under the age of 18 cannot give consent)._sabotage_ wrote:Rape is forced sex.
Now, I expect you don't agree with that definition and would posit it's another example of the state getting you down; but under legal definitions, that's the definition.
So the guy talking in the religion thread about how we need a universal moral standard that people can look to so that they are not making up their own morality, comes in here and says that he gets to define what rape is, and whatever the rest of society has agreed upon is irrelevant._sabotage_ wrote: Not in my books, TGD.
Do you think Jesus would agree with what you're saying in this thread?_sabotage_ wrote:The change in definition makes us less moral, not more.
I'd be like "WTF - I thought you were going in for 4-Loco?," and then leave her prudish ass at the 7-11._sabotage_ wrote:on the way to your place and buys some condoms
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I don't remember exactly, but I thought there was some discussion about whether Jenny raped Forrest._sabotage_ wrote:No, I took into account that violence was shown and therefore the requirement to resist no long exists. Once someone needs to use violence to have sex, the person clearly knows you are not willingly consenting. Just as if they have sex with you while you are unconscious. If someone drugs them to specifically lower their ability to give consent, then I would consider it.
But in all situations, I would like to know that a reasonable person would clearly understand a rape was taking place before I convicted them of the crime. If they could prove to me that they had legitimate reason to believe what they were engaged in couldn't be viewed as forcing someone to do something against their will from a reasonable persons perspective, then I'd let him walk. The law won't though if all that needs to be stated is: I was drunk.
Did Jenny know she was raping Gump in this random perhaps made up guy's perspective? Would a reasonable person consider that rape? For everyone's sake, I hope not.
Not in my books, TGD.
It's not my definition and I'm not saying you are being accused of rape. I'm saying any guidance you may provide is misleading. I suspect, but obviously do not know, that juries will take into account things like "they were both drunk" or "history of the accused and accuser." However, the safest bet is to not have sex with a drunk person and not have sex with a mentally challenged person. If you take that risk, you are assuming responsibility for your actions and the consequences._sabotage_ wrote:I'm not being accused of rape. I don't need to defend myself.
My definition is based on tacit consent. The definition coming into use is explicit consent. The difference is quite clear. In the first instance, tacit consent, the prosecutor requires a heavier burden of proof. In the case of Jenny, she could establish this through their history together, through knowledge of Gump's ability to consent to other things, and his ability to not consent to other things. She could then show that by showing no sign of refusal, though quite capable of showing sign of refusal, he expressed tacit consent.
On the other hand, if Gump is declared unable to consent, it's rape regardless of anything else. The prosecutor just has to show two things: Gump is mentally challenged and sexual activity occurred. The fact that he was able to be a soldier, a businessman, live on his own and otherwise consent to a wide range of activities doesn't give him the ability to consent to sex and doesn't give Jenny the to judge.
Everything that Jenny knew about Gump, how he reacts, what he is capable of, that he expressed only physical pleasure doesn't matter.
There is no longer a presumption of innocence.
The same goes for being drunk and if both parties are drunk, it boils down to who calls the cops first. This is clearly seen in the college case, and the boy was expelled.
What you are defending is his expulsion, please do so or recognize wherein lies the problem with your definition.