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zen330
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A basic code of conduct for the site forums.

Post by zen330 »

Reason: Toxic people and comments hurt good discussion (and even wider readership) and dissuade others from joining in discussions as to such negative interactions. Many online forums have effectively been destroyed or badly diminished by (generally) toxic people running amok and effectively poisoning the well as many here have undoubtedly seen for themselves on various other forums. All healthy societies have some standards for honorable behavior and the willingness to uphold them, and there is no compelling reason IMO why online communities should be fundamentally different in this regard from IRL ones, especially perhaps as many people are much more “brave” in their bad behavior online without the direct threat of widespread shunning or even physical violence in response to such behavior.

I realize that such things can turn into slippery slopes leading to overbearing moderation, though some basic and logical guidelines (like aiming for constructive discussion and avoiding personal attacks) should be relatively easy to recognize and uphold to some reasonable degree, and the fact that this site has apparently to date adopted zero moderation (from what I’ve seen anyways, aside I assume for illegal or illicit posts) suggests that the current team would be able to restrain themselves from going full SJW mode despite the unfortunate trend in the western world for this to occur.

As for implementation and avoiding overreach by activist or overly emotional mods I’m thinking that this could be done by averaging votes, for example ten mods could vote on how much of a standard (/10) there should be for posts here, and also when a questionable case (user) came up could scrape the last ten or twenty comments by that person and vote on the conduct displayed within those comments as compared to the minimal standard agreed upon.

A related IRL account of such a “code of conduct” working, there was a major US university that had a significant problem with cheating (this was ten plus years ago, before the advent of AI). When they simply added in a clause to the tests to the effect of “you agree that you will behave in line with the code of conduct of this university” cheating dropped dramatically, and this IIRC without any other efforts to curtail cheating or even any actual published code of conduct by the university (i.e. the implication that there was a code of conduct at all had a major positive effect).


Again no poll on this due to apparent brigading by two people here in contrast to the small number of others who seem to vote on such things, leading to a likely misleading accounting of the wider views of the userbase of this site.
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Re: A basic code of conduct for the site forums.

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https://www.conquerclub.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=7785

There is a whole thread already.

Such a moron, didn't even look at the community guidelines and standards before posting this.

And since you have me foed and won't see this, I hope someone quotes it and shows you how dumb you are.
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Re: A basic code of conduct for the site forums.

Post by Apatheist »

Unfortunately there is a prevailing view in the Guidelines that "Just because it offends you does not make it against the site rules or illegal. CC has a foe feature and we recommend you use it." One of the issues with cancel culture (inappropriately mentioned on another thread) is that some people cannot see the difference between hate speech and speech that they hate, so there is unfortunately a high level of tolerance for what most of us would consider inappropriate or uncivilised comments.
I suspect, from what I've seen you post zen, that you will eventually have the same half a dozen people on your foe list as I do. You'll have the ones who think winning a kids' dice game means that they're suitable for the marines; those who can't handle that sometimes players attack them instead of the other players and thereby stop them winning (and give you bad ratings as a result); those who can't reconcile themselves to the fact that one gets bad dice sometimes; those who simply appear to have no other outlet for their self-loathing or previous emotional trauma and can only try to deal with their feelings by belittling others; and those who are simply trolls and don't care about the damage they've done to the site and the usership. I saw one post today that criticised the person that they were arguing with as being "smelly" - which suggests the mentality of an eight-year-old.
It would be nice if they would confine themselves to insulting each other within their own clans, but as I'm sure you're about to see in the responses to this post (most of which I won't see initially because they're on my foe list), that isn't enough for some of them.
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Re: A basic code of conduct for the site forums.

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Omg stop trying to change things that you have no power over and go enjoy your month of premie.

Play some speed games, or load up to a hundred or so games all together.


The site has been the way it is mostly for close to 20 years, you aren't going to make big changes like you think you will unless you make Wham an offer for the whole site and by some chance he accepts it and you change it for yourself.



Also, although it was originally meant to be a child's game, you have to have an email address to set up an account..
And most email domains require a person to be a certain age.
Most are 13.

My 15 year old talks more violent on Fortnite than most can handle here, and that's sad.

And just so it's know, most minors that have played this game like that have mostly all made multiple accounts and gotten banned long ago, and after being banned over and over had given up. (Hopefully)
Idk. There was this one guy back in the day that kept making accounts just to join my games and troops us in the old chat room.
He made a few hundred accounts over a year. Lol
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Re: A basic code of conduct for the site forums.

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My 15 year old talks more violent on Fortnite than most can handle here, and that's sad.
You mean what's sad is that your 15 year old talk violently right ?
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Re: A basic code of conduct for the site forums.

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Donelladan wrote: Tue Mar 03, 2026 3:45 am
My 15 year old talks more violent on Fortnite than most can handle here, and that's sad.
You mean what's sad is that your 15 year old talk violently right ?
No. I honestly said it as I meant it.

My 15 year old teenager has more of a spine than most of the invertebrates on here.
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Re: A basic code of conduct for the site forums.

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I know, but I think it's sad that you think it's good that your 15 year old talk violently in an online game and it's sad that you think it's a good argument.

Being polite and respectful of each other is always better.

There is no advantage gained in any discussion, interaction between two persons to resort to violent vocabulary, unless you aim at hurting the person you're talking to.
Such a moron, didn't even look at the community guidelines and standards before posting this
Saying the same thing nicely could lead OP to agree with you or have him change his mind. The "moron" part make it sure it's not going to be well received, giving close to 0 chance of whatever you're trying to convince him to happen. But I don't think it was your intention anyway.
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Re: A basic code of conduct for the site forums.

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Donelladan wrote: Tue Mar 03, 2026 9:14 am I know, but I think it's sad that you think it's good that your 15 year old talk violently in an online game and it's sad that you think it's a good argument.

Being polite and respectful of each other is always better.

There is no advantage gained in any discussion, interaction between two persons to resort to violent vocabulary, unless you aim at hurting the person you're talking to.
Such a moron, didn't even look at the community guidelines and standards before posting this
Saying the same thing nicely could lead OP to agree with you or have him change his mind. The "moron" part make it sure it's not going to be well received, giving close to 0 chance of whatever you're trying to convince him to happen. But I don't think it was your intention anyway.
You've mistakenly misunderstood.
Trash talking doesn't mean being disrespectful towards one.

No, being disrespectful towards one is what I do towards the poster that suggested this because they can't take criticism on their suggestions and wanting to argue against actual evidence with barely speculation.
And I was nice and respectful at first, til I just got tired of horrible suggestions 12 or so post later.
So, I acted some type of way that could be deemed disrespectful. Yeah, that's on me.

But let's not get it twisted when it comes to my kid when he wipes the floor with people on Fortnite and tells them to practice with sarcastic comments. I mean he gets it honestly.


https://www.conquerclub.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=7785
Just because it offends you does not make it against the site rules or illegal. CC has a foe feature and we recommend you use it
As said on that link to the community guidelines.

Yes, I may have slightly pushed boundaries.. but so be it. Someone should to a point.

I have yet to receive a warning about anything I've said, nor have I gotten a message from any mods or admins asking me to stop.
If they were to, I would have done so, respectfully.


At the same time, since we are discussing my "disrespectful" conduct, have you even taken the time to look at the 13 other suggestions by said poster?

I told them for sure id troll them for their ignorance and neglect to accept truth.
And I'm a man of my word.
I even posted previous links to show them their suggestions have been posted multiple other times and been either denied or ignored and archived.
They neglected to acknowledge logic and the insanity of repeating the same thing time and time again so I decided to be the chaos factor to correct said insanity.

Wasting server space is crazy, and wasting mods, the tec teams time, and the suggestions team time is even more insane..

And why? Because people fail to properly research before posting.

Now there are a ton of comments on all his threads and they can't be removed. They can possibly edit them, but they can't be removed now and it's declarations of lessons this person needs. And maybe in the future they will have an idea to suggest that blows everyone's mind because they actually thought it through and researched it as it should have been.

That's what we need. The truly revolutionizing thoughts that bring upon us the best changes ever.


So I shall freely troll the bad ideas with knowledge.
It is what it is, and can't be something it's not.
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Donelladan
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Re: A basic code of conduct for the site forums.

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Check, I may have mistakenly reacted at your first comment.

Didn't check any other posts of OP indeed.

I'm sometimes slightly annoyed at the level of offensive talk allowed here on CC and I thought it was what were talking about here.
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Re: A basic code of conduct for the site forums.

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Donelladan wrote: Tue Mar 03, 2026 10:00 am Check, I may have mistakenly reacted at your first comment.

Didn't check any other posts of OP indeed.

I'm sometimes slightly annoyed at the level of offensive talk allowed here on CC and I thought it was what were talking about here.
The original poster wants to write a system of guidelines to which the community should behave.

But that already exist.
That was the point of their post. With no research they made that suggestion
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