snapdoodle wrote:i don't want this to be like ebay.
"This player was A++++++++++++++. Would play again!"
I have heard a lot of references to e-bay, but CC is distinctly different from e-bay.
In the one, folks try to buy and sell for profit ... conduct business. There are more or less set standards. You lie about merchandise, fail to deliver as promised or fail to pay, etc... and everybody pretty well feels the same. The "grey areas" are pretty few and even they can be spelled out (smoking, return issues, etc.)
Here, it is about fun. The standards of decorum vary WIDELY. Some people think tossing insults is good fun, others are offended. Some like this tactic, some like that one. There is
no one standardEven when it comes to deadbeating ... the closest to a universal "no" in CC, some of us are tolerant if a person has computer or other issues (apologies go a long way!), some couldn't care less why.
Maybe one partial solution to this (??) is to let people post certain self-proclaimed attributes in their profiles. Things like "prefers real time"; ...etc. OR, perhaps more space (other than jobs, hobbies) for people to describe their gaming style.
Unfortunately, it might just open up another can of worms, if people expected these attributes to be somehow enforceable, but on the other hand, what someone says about themselves is ... well what they say.