The reason I ask is that my daughter and I joined CC about the same time as 3 or 4 other family members a year ago. The two of us take semi-seriously

However, the rest of the family could care less about rank, except, when we play private family games, they love to bust us over winning, because of our rank...

I want to keep playing in our family games, but get tired of losing substantial points losing to a private... If I do win... it's not worth the points.
Any hope of getting this option? Maybe just for private games?