Masturbation- is it wrong?

[Huckleberryhound]

It's mine, and i'll rub it as hard as i want

[Anarkistsdream]

It's mine, and i'll rub it as hard as i want

Especially while in the shower... A little soap, lookin' through the spank bank.... Ahhh, those were the days...

Now, I just make my girlfriend do it.

[Huckleberryhound]

It's mine, and i'll rub it as hard as i want

Especially while in the shower... A little soap, lookin' through the spank bank.... Ahhh, those were the days...

Now, I just make my girlfriend do it.

I hear you brother, although i don't have to make her. As soon as it makes itself known, we have an unspoken agreement

[Anarkistsdream]

It's mine, and i'll rub it as hard as i want

Especially while in the shower... A little soap, lookin' through the spank bank.... Ahhh, those were the days...

Now, I just make my girlfriend do it.

I hear you brother, although i don't have to make her. As soon as it makes itself known, we have an unspoken agreement

Well, I of course didn't mean MAKE her.... hahaha. I'm an asshole, but being pushy is the surest way to avoid that sweet release...

[gethine]

hitman, isn't a bit of a shame that you feel guilty for masturbating? i feel sorry for you fella

[freezie]

It's not wrong, but it's not good either ( my most honest oppinion.)

Keep everything for when you're gona have sex with someone...

Unless you can't get someone...

[Anarkistsdream]

It's not wrong, but it's not good either ( my most honest oppinion.)

Keep everything for when you're gona have sex with someone...

Unless you can't get someone...

Sex therapists advise against this... By masturbating you build up a tolerance for sex...

Otherwise, the first time you are inside of a woman you will be a Two-Pump Chump...

[hecter]

I think maybe one of the reasons people have problems with masturbation is the fact that it is an extremely selfish act.

[Huckleberryhound]

I think maybe one of the reasons people have problems with masturbation is the fact that it is an extremely selfish act.

If that's your only problem, i can link a few webcam sites that can help you with that

[hecter]

I think maybe one of the reasons people have problems with masturbation is the fact that it is an extremely selfish act.

If that's your only problem, i can link a few webcam sites that can help you with that

You sick bastard! I'm 15!!!! You disgust me beyond all reason!!

Links please...

[Huckleberryhound]

I think maybe one of the reasons people have problems with masturbation is the fact that it is an extremely selfish act.

If that's your only problem, i can link a few webcam sites that can help you with that

You sick bastard! I'm 15!!!! You disgust me beyond all reason!!

Links please...

And you bore the shit out of me. I think we've both found something that works


www.alt.com . . . the chat room can get nasty

[OnlyAmbrose]

The lust thing is where the trouble is. It's pretty clear that lust is sin, both from the OT, and from the words of Jesus. So masturbation in the most common sense, by oneself and looking at porn, would be sin, because there is certainly lust involved.

so masturbating when i don't feel like it won't make it a sin? when will lust NOT be involved then?

Mr. Nate summed it up nicely. Masturbation almost always involves lust, fantasizing, etc. That, and the arousal that comes from masturbation makes it far easier to give in to lust, even if you weren't necessarily fantasizing in the first place. Even if masturbation itself is not specifically mentioned as a sin in the Bible, it is either the natural product of a sin (lust, which Jesus called the equivalent of adultery) or can lead to the near occasion of that sin. Either way, it's something that is best avoided, difficult as it is- and it can certainly be argued that it's a sin in itself simply because it's either lustful or a direct link to lust. It's a struggle for most Christian young men I know to resist it, myself certainly included, but you're not alone, and it's entirely possible.

[hecter]

But what if you masturbating while fantasizing about the person you love (wife or girlfriend). Does that still make it wrong and an object of lust? As I have done that before, and will do again.

[Ronaldinho]

I dont think i would just do it, unless i was gagging lol, but i only do it before i know im going to have sex, becuase then i can go for about 20mins longer lol, which is good for me, and its good for her.

[OnlyAmbrose]

But what if you masturbating while fantasizing about the person you love (wife or girlfriend). Does that still make it wrong and an object of lust? As I have done that before, and will do again.

Sure does make it lust!

Lust is when you start thinking about the things you would do to/with a girl. And that's what generally accompanies masturbation. There's a very fine line between lust and appreciation of a woman's beauty, and unfortunately, we as men cross it way too often (again, myself included).

From the Christian perspective, there is no sin in seeing a naked woman if you see her and raise thanks to God for giving us so beautiful a companion. There is sin if you start thinking about what you would do with her if you had the chance. And that's masturbation for you. Face it- when you're masturbating while thinking of some girl, you're not seeing her as God's creation, you're visualizing something erotic. You're using her image as something to make you sexually excited. That's lust.

But once again, this is all from the Christian perspective. For this manner of debate to be valid, you have to believe in God in the first place, which is quite a different topic. This was just in answer to Hitman's questions regarding whether or not it was a sin in the Christian doctrine or not.

[Huckleberryhound]

But what if you masturbating while fantasizing about the person you love (wife or girlfriend). Does that still make it wrong and an object of lust? As I have done that before, and will do again.

Sure does make it lust!

Lust is when you start thinking about the things you would do to/with a girl. And that's what generally accompanies masturbation. There's a very fine line between lust and appreciation of a woman's beauty, and unfortunately, we as men cross it way too often (again, myself included).

From the Christian perspective, there is no sin in seeing a naked woman if you see her and raise thanks to God for giving us so beautiful a companion. There is sin if you start thinking about what you would do with her if you had the chance. And that's masturbation for you. Face it- when you're masturbating while thinking of some girl, you're not seeing her as God's creation, you're visualizing something erotic. You're using her image as something to make you sexually excited. That's lust.

But once again, this is all from the Christian perspective. For this manner of debate to be valid, you have to believe in God in the first place, which is quite a different topic. This was just in answer to Hitman's questions regarding whether or not it was a sin in the Christian doctrine or not.

What if your not getting any from your wife, and your back teeth are floating because it's been that long since you've had your balls empty ?

Surely God would prefer you to knock one off to a pic of Jessica Alba, than go and commit adultery ??

[AndrewLC]

[OnlyAmbrose]

What if your not getting any from your wife, and your back teeth are floating because it's been that long since you've had your balls empty ?

That's why God gave us men nocturnal emissions / wet dreams

[AndrewLC]

People are stupid sometimes.

[Hitman079]

From the Christian perspective, there is no sin in seeing a naked woman if you see her and raise thanks to God for giving us so beautiful a companion. There is sin if you start thinking about what you would do with her if you had the chance. And that's masturbation for you. Face it- when you're masturbating while thinking of some girl, you're not seeing her as God's creation, you're visualizing something erotic. You're using her image as something to make you sexually excited. That's lust.

your argument turns me on

[AndrewLC]

From the Christian perspective, there is no sin in seeing a naked woman if you see her and raise thanks to God for giving us so beautiful a companion. There is sin if you start thinking about what you would do with her if you had the chance. And that's masturbation for you. Face it- when you're masturbating while thinking of some girl, you're not seeing her as God's creation, you're visualizing something erotic. You're using her image as something to make you sexually excited. That's lust.

your argument turns me on

OI THATS MINE

[Huckleberryhound]

What if your not getting any from your wife, and your back teeth are floating because it's been that long since you've had your balls empty ?

That's why God gave us men nocturnal emissions / wet dreams

No, that's why God gave us restaraunts and roses


edit...and alcohol

[Hitman079]

and so what is the longest time you have ABSTAINED from masturbating?

[AndrewLC]

and so what is the longest time you have ABSTAINED from masturbating?

Well, about 13 years

But yeah, 5 days, I practicly exploded when I did it again

[OnlyAmbrose]

Who are you asking?

Myself, since age 15, probably about half a year.