by honestjohn on Mon Sep 17, 2007 11:54 pm
It's a topic that seems to come up often and usually has the same comments regarding whether the rule should be left in or taken out. I don't know if it's even possible to arrive at a conclusion that will satisfy everyone.
We are all subject to those times when we might not be able to meet our committment to the games, because of illness, jobs or family situations, so the chances are good that we might be the one looking for a little understanding and patience.
I've had a few games where someone has missed turns and been granted the extra armies. If there was a satisfactory explanation given, no problem.. If there was not even an offer of explanation given, I have asked for one..
If it happens more than once in a game, chances are, I will just push the 'ignore' button.
I have said this other places but will repeat it here because I've found it's what works best for me..
Mostly, I play games from the 'private games' section.
Before joining any games with players already committed, (that I am not familiar with), I will review first, their 'feedback', then the actual games they have played to see if they habitually 'miss' turns, then the 'game chat' to see how they treat other players.
For the most part, I won't join games in the 'open' section unless I'm the last player to join and I can review everyones games.
I have been called a 'snob', (among other things), because of this, and this may be true.. but that, as they say, is 'like water off the ducks back'.
My point is that by doing my own 'police work', I think I miss a lot of the frustrations that lead to threads like this one.
Quote to my grandson, "if the game isn't fun, we put it away"
"Aspire to inspire before you expire."
"And he went forth conquering and to conquer". Rev. 6:2
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